Could he be gay?

[Beachbum2]

I have a strange feeling that my bf of 4 yrs may be bi sexual.or gay.

I have no concrete evidence just a few things that snap my head back and make me wonder..

Take the following instances..

1.When we make love I please him orally every time or whenever he wants it. He rarely pleases me the same way. We have gotten into arguments over this a few times..i am clean and always make sure of this.

2. He likes me to use my toys on him..if u know what i mean.at first I didn't really think anything of it but hed rather me do this to him than mame love sometimes. When he cums after I do this..the lovemaking is over. So basically I'm left to finish myself off.

3. He always turns his head away when I please him orally or when we are face to face making love and even when he's behind me..i see him in the mirror and very time he has his head turned the other way.

4. He us extremely homophobic and even refused to go see Beauty and the Beast with me because he said one of the characters was gay. I was floored!!

5. Several months ago I forwarded him a few porn sites that were in my email..one of these emails was a gay site. No biggie. I didn't think anything of it until i saw that he saved it under his Important folder in his email.

6. He complains that I want sex too much. Not true. 4 or 5 times a week isn't that much to me. So usually he'll get mad at me when he thinks I want it too much and will refuse to have sex.

 

He does have few feminine tendencies.

I don't know if it's all in my head or what. Maybe I'm overthinking this. Please send your thoughts.

[Wiseman2]

It sounds like you are very sexually incompatible and frustrated, but that is not an indicator of his sexual orientation. Stop doing unsatisfying sex.

[Matt3939]

I was on board till #4.

[ThatwasThen]

I think you're with the wrong guy. Find someone who likes to give as much as he gets and with whom you won't wonder if he's using you as a "beard."

[kamurj]

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