Jaypie5 Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 Dated a girl for about 5 months, we met at work. She got around before me and was very indecisive whether I wanted to date her because the fear of her hurting me, but she seemed to really want to be with me. We both work at the same bar/restaurant. The first three months were solid, I really started to fall for her. Treated me like gold. Then with a snap it seemed she wanted nothing to do with me. We stopped having sex, she wanted to go out without me ALL OF THE TIME and made it clear her friends didn't want me there either. This started fights because it seemed as though we never hungout and weren't intimate when we were around one another. I felt as though I was annoying her the entire time. She hits the beach for a weekend trip with friends, comes back and is distant and rude immediately. Doesn't want to see me, just decides to go out with friends again. Two days later we get into a huge fight because she has been treating me like this and she breaks up with me. She makes me feel as if it was all my fault. Fast forward a month, I'm not over it at all because she kept wanting to talk or stay the night with me or meet up, but now she's talking to someone new and hasn't spoken to me. She brings him to our work all of the time and it turns out she hooked up with him down the beach while we were still together. To wrap this up: what do I do? I feel ashamed and anxious, I keep comparing myself to this guy, and I'm really debating quitting my job. Ignoring it isn't helping. I can't sleep, I'm so stressed. I feel like an idiot because of the timing of it all. I don't know. I'm sorry this is a rant. Link to comment
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