Mr Joe Posted March 13, 2017 Share Posted March 13, 2017 I have been seeing a young lady for about a month now. I (31/m) met a student here on a visa (29/f). Between school and work she has a busy schedule, but thankfully her campus is across the street from my office; so we will often spend our lunch breaks together. We have our date nights, and I am genuinely intrigued by her and would like to spend more time with her. The feeling in mutual; she calls me often out of the blue and asks me to join her in her school activities. However, this has been going on for a month now. I have always said I don't need sex in a relationship to be happy; but oh man am I eating crow. She wants to herself, she brings it up often, but says when she is ready. I have kept things very gentlemanly and have not been aggresive as she has told me how she has been turned off by dating in the past as other guys only wanted to sleep with her. She's told me she appreciates how I have been so kind to her, but now I am starting to worry. It's been a month, and nothing has really happened outside of some heavy making out. I am thinking going more aggressive on the next date, because frankly, I am starting to worry a bit if something is up. Or should I talk to her first? I am not sure and I am wracked with questions. Link to comment
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