Daisy78 Posted February 24, 2017 Share Posted February 24, 2017 I think I am in a controlling relationship. I have been dating a guy for 4 months... after 2 dates he told me he has strong feelings for me and He told he loves me and has never felt this way about anyone. He said he really cares about me and he makes sure I get to and from work OK as I can't drive for health reasons. He is more overweight than me and tells me that I need to put on weight as I weigh about 8st .. I don't know if he is controlling me or if he is concerned for me... I also lent him money to pay an overdue bill which he hasn't paid me back for and I lent him the money because he has taken me away for a few days and paid for nights out and things. He once went out to the mall at midnight to buy me tablets when i had period pain He tells me I'm gorgeous and that he is lucky to have me and that his work colleagues are jealous as they fancy me. I'm on a bit of a dilemma.. I suppose I am on the more reserved and quieter side than him and maybe he being more confident he feels protective of me but I'm confused as I now think he might be trying to control me. I am a bit worried as he knows so many people that if I finish with him I'll be hated. He helps people in the street, looks after his parents and is very very confident. Any red flag signs I should look out for? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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