Very confused, i really need help, soon!!!

[Chelseybug]

well hello. its been forever since ive been on here. ok heres the issue... the first boy i fell in love with, lets call him christian, is currently my best friend. we were together about five months. he is the most important thing to me. we arent' together now, im with another guy, lets say nate. nate and i have been together for 2 months. i tell him i love him, and at the time, i feel like i do. but then later i think about it, and i think maybe i don't. in fact im almost sure. but i do still love christian, and i think i always will. he won't be with me right now, because i have broken his heart so many times that he is tired of the same thing happening. i really have changed, and grown up a lot since that stuff. i don't know what to do! i feel like i couldn't break up with nate because he loves me, A LOT. and im tired of hurting people, and i know it would just crush him. PLEASE help me!!!

-love, chels[/img]

[DN]

You should not be with nate if you do not love him - it is not fair to both of you.

[Chelseybug]

well, i really care about him, and i think i may love him. im just not sure. and he is so great to me. he knows how to cheer me up, and he treats me like no one ever has