ang97 Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 We had a great relationship up until the end. I'll spare you most of the details. We are both 19 and started dating at 17, so a little over a year we were together. We go to different schools about half an hour apart. We broke up because he just didn't want a relationship anymore. He said he still loves me, still said we are soulmates, said he still wants us to be best friends and doesn't want to lose that. He said we can still hang out and text in the future--he still wants that (I don't want a friendship and kind of said this). It's been 6 days since we broke up. He said he just doesn't want a relationship right now, and he'd only want one in the future with me. Said he would reach out to me if he decided he wants one. Now, what might've caused this? I know he's very overwhelmed right now. He's on academic probation for his school and his fraternity. He has rush going on for his fraternity which takes up a lot of time. He's horrible with time management and doesn't deal with stress very well. So I think, and his mom thinks, he just needs a break from something in order to keep his standing in school (otherwise he will lose his scholarship) and his fraternity (he will be kicked out, waste of like $2000, etc). He's really big into the party scene and drinking/smoking right now. I think when he gets all of the BS out of his system and gets some of his responsibilities in check he will try to get back with me. No, I'm not excusing his stupid behavior at all. And no, I'm not saying I would even take him back if he tried to get with me. What do you think? Link to comment
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