need advice

[Eyleia]

i dont know wats wrong with me .... my ex bf send me message to get back to me so i did but he dont want me to be jelous when he hang out with hes girl friends

[Wolfshook]

What I understood from your previous posts,your ex is a and you let yourself be stringed along while he is with other girls too. only you can stop it.

 

Where are you from? Maybe your culture is different,but this is how things work at my place.

[overthemoon86]

Why are you even corresponding with your ex? That is the real question.

[Eyleia]

becoz i miss him.. and he ask for another chance so i did .. but wat hurt me the most he dont want me to be jelous with he hang out with hes Gf's should i break up with him again? or just ignore him and completly disappaear

[ParisPaulette]

He did what he did, because now he wants a harem and you in it. This is not the same thing as truly wanting to get back with you though and I'm sorry that happened. The fact is he's offering you a demotion in status from girlfriend to booty call and you need to not be willing to take the demotion.

 

Turn this around in your head though, you gave him that second chance. He blew it. You've now found out what happens if you two were to get back together, so with that mystery solved you need to take this as the final sign from the universe he is not the right guy for you, cut all ties, block and delete him, and move on.

 

You deserve much better, but this one won't give that to you. It's time to love yourself more and value yourself more and sometimes that means letting go of those who would hurt you.

[Eyleia]

Ur right i need to start to love myself more and move on with mylife without him huhuhu