Is it over?

[msgirl]

So my boyfriend and have been dating for 3 and a half years. We've been struggling with a couple of problems but I thought we could work through it. Well last week he dropped the bomb on me. He wants to take a break and takes some time to think. And told me that he was going to stay at a friends house for a bit. Well he went to stay at his friends house, but he is taking everything! Is it just me or does this means its completely over. I understand if he wants time to think. But why take everything of his? I have the feeling that it is over. He told me to just work on myself. and to stop worrying about him and us.

 

So confused.

[mhowe]

Its over. What were the things you think could be worked on?

[msgirl]

I'm not the greatest at communicating. And I've lost my sex drive

[mhowe]

I'm not the greatest at communicating. And I've lost my sex drive

 

 

Those are pretty significant "things". I would way he is done. How is he supposed to make you communicate better or fix your sex drive?

[msgirl]

Well he knew from the beginning that I've already had a hard time with communicating. But the sex things is probably from all the hell my body has been through lol. I've had 6 surgeries in the span of 2 years..

[overthemoon86]

Yea, if he is taking all of his things out of your place, he is definitely done with the relationship. I am sorry, but I would also start to move on.

[mhowe]

It might have helpful to mention that in your first post. However, between your surgeries and your depression and your loss of memory and no sex or affection...I would say he is simply done.

 

Which is why he said to work on your issues and not worry about "him or us". Really...what would have him do?

[No1]

You know the saying "actions speaks louder than words" He said he wants a break but he is moving his stuff out.. Actions dictate that its over..