Need advice with a goddess I just met yesterday

[relcopycat]

I just met a girl yesterday, who is the sister of a friend of one of my friends. I knew about her existence before and she probably knew about mine, but never actually checked her facebook or such.

My friend called me and said that he's nearby so if I want to grab a beer with him and his friend and friend's sister, I should come. I went there, not having any plans and I was stunned. From my perspective, she's easily a 8.5, maybe 9 just judging her looks. I acted cool though, really natural.

My friend left for 15 mins at some point, so I had the chance to talk to her more. I was really impressed, as she also has the brains from. It was easy to figure out from the subjects we talked - mostly college life and such, but the conversation was good, she was open, and I made her laugh a lot, which gave me confidence.

My friend eventually came back and we all left soon. After a few hours, I sent her a friend request and she immediately accepted it. After a few more hours, I contacted her on facebook with a kind of lame opener, but I felt like it worked great, as we started talking a lot and she was still really open. So after an hour or so of talking, I asked her what she plans on doing the next day (today), she said that she didnt have any plan, so I asked her to grab a cup of coffee. I wasn't needy or cheesy, I was natural and I don't think the fact that I asked her out was the problem. She sent me a smile and said that we should talk about that the next day. (her response was positive imo)

Today I sent her a message asking her how she was, planning to make a little chit-chat and then arrange the meeting. However, she never responded nor seen my message.

What do I do now? She's either not interested or forgot to check her message and eventually reply. Should I try again in a few days? What do I tell her then?

Please help me as this girl blew my mind!

[Movingforward3]

You must have patience. Give her time to respond. Don't be that guy who is very aggressive. Casual and cool. Easy going.

Can you be somewhere she might be that you can "run" into her.

[kathy679]

Don't contact her again if she doesn't respond. You will have your answer and need to accept it.

 

If you contact her again you will come accross as desperate. So dont.

Just wait and see if she replys

[melancholy123]

OMG slow down! Not everyone sits on their phone 24/7! People do have other things to do! Be patient, you've already contacted her. If she's interested she will contact you.

[overthemoon86]

ughhh you sound really desperate! And based on what you are saying, I think that is coming accross in your messages on FB. I would let her come to you. And if she doesn't, she is not interested. Simple as that.

[relcopycat]

Alright, I'm coming with updates.

Firstly, I don't think I was acting desperate at all when talking to her. As I said, in both situations the conversations were going really well, not personal or cheesy and not even flirty. I didn't mention this and that's why you thought I was desperate and impatient. Anyway, thank you guys a lot for your words, still made me learn a lot.

 

So two days have passed and there is still no reply. I see two possibilities. She either legitimately didn't see the message, or was trying to avoid me which I find quite odd.

 

The question is: what do I do now? Do I send her a message again without even mentioning the fact that she didn't see my message and acting all cool, or do I just shut up and pray that I have another shot at meeting her or bumping into her "accidentally"? I know the easy way is to forget her, but believe me that I'd rather make a mistake which I learn from than do nothing and regret afterwards.

[TMifune]

You just met her. Take her off the pedestal.

 

Wait a couple more days and then invite her to something you were going to do anyway. If she doesn't respond she's not interested.

[overthemoon86]

She is not replying. I would say there is your answer.