Hermes Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 Bridger. Surely you can find someone else less exhausting than this girl? And while you are at it, maybe someone closer to home, in 3D. IMO you will be the happier for it. Link to comment
Theniceone Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 You have been together 2 years.... Do you know if your existence is known to her family or friends? Evidence of your relationship on Facebook. I am the last one to use social media as a barometer of a relationship, but in your case since you have never met it would be good to know. Link to comment
LC8328 Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 I gave you the solution 3 pages ago.... You schedule a visit. If she backs out of it, then she is not interested in continuing with you. Have you discussed future plans? When are you expected to be dating in the flesh? I have a feeling this situation may be somewhat convenient to you... i mean the distance. Bridger, I recommend you follow Theniceone's advice here. She may be a real human being, and you may have seen her face and heard her voice, but there are red flags all over this relationship. You have been tortured long enough. Schedule a visit and except NO excuses! This ends now! Link to comment
Bridger1 Posted October 20, 2015 Author Share Posted October 20, 2015 yes we have discussed our future many many times.. her plan was to come here to the states after graduation... im not sure if that is still her plan. ive been to nervous to ask. her friends know about me, her mother knows about me.. we are on instagram , but i havent messed with FB for a few years.. so i have never brought that up Link to comment
Theniceone Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 yes we have discussed our future many many times.. her plan was to come here to the states after graduation... im not sure if that is still her plan. ive been to nervous to ask. her friends know about me, her mother knows about me.. we are on instagram , but i havent messed with FB for a few years.. so i have never brought that up You are afraid to ask her? Don't you think it could be seen as a sign of disinterest on your side? Is it even realistic to think that as a trained nurse in Canada she can easily find a job in the US, or just stay for an extended period of time? You understand that paperwork takes time...If she is planning to graduate within a year, then have you started the process? funny how you refer to it as her plan? Wouldn't it be a common plan or is she exepected that you live seperately once she moves to the US. I think you like the fantasy aspect of it, and the fact that at some point she needed you, hence why you are also reluctant to make this relationship real. I think maybe her being away makes it easy to keep her out of your problems as you stated in a previous thread. How do you know her friends and mother know about you? She told you? or have you exchanged with them? or at the very least it is very eveident by looking at her instagram that you are her significant other? Link to comment
Heather Dawn Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 no we have not met yet.. im in the us , her canada... we phone, text, skype This is an online friendship, not a relationship. Link to comment
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