Josh07 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 I've never kissed a girl before and I wanted to know how I can tell when to make the move or how to go about kissing a girl. I wanted to make a move on my girlfriend on valentine's day and I needed some advice on how I should go about doing it. She's not the naughty girl or anything like that but I think she's waiting for me to make the move and I really want this valentine's day to be special for the both of us. I'm not going for a long kiss just something to show that I care and I have feelings for her. - Josh07 Link to comment
Ontario Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Tell her the truth. If she really loves you, she'll understand. Link to comment
jackknive Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Ask her. Tell her you really care about her, think she is special and beautiful. Say I would love to kiss you right now. See what she says. Don't feel bad if she says no. Mayb she isn't ready. At least this way asking her I think you got a good shot at her wanting to kiss you too. And you won't look stupid if you go to kiss her and she turns her head or something. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 This is something that is hard to tell, what you need to do is just go for a kiss nothing extravegant but just a nice kiss then it can graduate from there. If she is your gf then you should be able to talk about it with her. This is something that you are just going to have to do, its just a kiss and I wouldnt think that you shouldnt put too much thought into it. Link to comment
Josh07 Posted February 10, 2005 Author Share Posted February 10, 2005 I agree ... we've been hugging and holding hands and all that other stuff but no kiss yet! I'm going to kinda joke around the idea with her and go for a small kiss and see her reaction. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Thanks for the tips! - Josh07 Link to comment
helbby12 Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 when i want my guy to kiss me i lean in close and stare into his eyes and smile. by then he normally gets the message. if/when she starts doing stuff like that go for it! dont try to french yet just a light kiss on the lips will be perfect! u'll be fine! p.s. what happened to that nice pic?!?! Link to comment
Bad_Disease Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 I think it's usually fairly obvious when a girl is ready to kiss. When in doubt, just move closer and closer to her while looking into her eyes until you are all the way there. Don't move too quickly, and if she starts to nudge away, you know she isn't ready or willing. Link to comment
Doctor Smurf Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 Strange, my GF isn't the 'naughty' type either. We sat and chatted through our first date, and when the time for us to get our lifts home came it just sort of happened. I don't know, she just sort of moves towards you and then you kiss her. Not involved at all, but I think it was one of the best ones i have ever had!! Dan 8) Link to comment
Mintyfresh Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 comment on how soft and nice her hair is and then proceed to touch it a little bit....a minute later go to touch her hair again. If she's letting you stroke her hair she's ready for you to kiss her. Simple as that. Link to comment
omayra Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 i think u should ask her if u can get a kiss from her but it has to b at da right moment like when u 2 are holding hands and u are close thats all it works for us girls if she really likes u she won't say no. Link to comment
NKP Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 i think u should ask her if u can get a kiss from her but it has to b at da right moment like when u 2 are holding hands and u are close thats all it works for us girls if she really likes u she won't say no. I agree that is a really great way Link to comment
slightlyscared Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 When you guys are hugging just tilt your head down slightly (if she's shorter than you, of coarse). She'll get the message, I did when my b/f did that. Link to comment
mitch17 Posted April 19, 2007 Share Posted April 19, 2007 u kiss her at the end of the date or when the both of you have nothing to say, like a silence and then make the move Link to comment
Giant Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 I haven't kissed a girl in over eight months, but from my experiences, I would test the waters with a hug first. From personal experience, I would only make a move in a secluded and very private area, away from the eyes of others... after I tested the waters with a hug. Link to comment
Guy15 Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 SHE WANTS TO KISS YOU! KISS HER! /thread Link to comment
Tardis1 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 I agree ... we've been hugging and holding hands and all that other stuff but no kiss yet! It happened the same way for me and my girlfriend, We've hugged and hold hands quite a few times before we kissed. The best thing I can say that you and her will kiss when the time is right, Thats the way it happened with me and my girlfriend. Link to comment
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