Morky Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 To all the forum ladies...... Did you ever watch your man masterbate to orgasm and if so was it a turn on for you? Also to the guys, how many of you feel comfortable enough with your lady to do this in front of her and have you ever? Link to comment
arwen Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Ahhh I thought I was a total freak! But yeah, for me it is a huge turn on. [-X LOL Link to comment
Doctor Smurf Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 I do it regularly, but i dont think i could do it in front of anyone! Too scary... lol... Dan Link to comment
qt Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 i do, all the time and i love it. sometimes so turned on tho, i have to join in qt xxx Link to comment
Mermaid Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Watching my boyfriend masturbate to orgasm is one of my very favorite things to do. I absolutely love it. LOVE IT. Luckily for me, he's always happy to oblige. Link to comment
ForAnother Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 As a guy, I don't mind doing it in front of a girl. As for the girl side, most of the girls I have been with don't like to. Not a big deal. ForAnother Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 I wouldn't mind watching. My boyfriend has never masturbated in front of me before, though. The last time that we were "together," he almost did, but I took over. I was laying next to him, whispering all of the things that I was about to do to him in his ear, while stripping at the same time. I was grinding against his leg and after just a few minutes, he unzipped his pants and started pulling it out. I guess he would have taken care of things himself if I hadn't taken over instead. I wouldn't have minded watching, but it's so much more fun to actually participate. Link to comment
some_other_dude Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 ive done it front of my girlfriend a few times before. i wanted to watch her do it (i liked that...) and then she asked to watch me. Link to comment
tahlia Posted February 12, 2005 Share Posted February 12, 2005 Yeh its a huge turn on to watch him. It also gave me some good tips about how he likes it eg speed etc. I think the feeling was pretty mutual, i think he quite liked to watch me touching myself too. I think it builds up he anticpation for both parties. Link to comment
ghozt Posted February 12, 2005 Share Posted February 12, 2005 well most of the grils ive been with like that too for some reson but im not to Big on it Link to comment
Eric f Posted February 22, 2005 Share Posted February 22, 2005 yes my gf loves to watch but its still odd doing infront of her. but we do it together so it rules out being odd. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 I LOVE to watch! I wish he did it more often! LOL! But he prefers me to join in, which I don't mind at all! Link to comment
EmptySoul Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 I love to watch a man masturbate, and I think it is a great turn on to watch each other masturbate. Empty Link to comment
CarrieB123 Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 Any hints on how to get him to do it, if he is too shy. I want to watch and have asked him to do it, but he wont. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 A lot of it simply has to do with how comfortable you are with each other sexually. If he's still shy, then there are still some walls that need to be brought down in bed. Help him feel confident. Don't try to force him to do things, but reassure him and slowly move him in new directions. Link to comment
VictorWard Posted February 26, 2005 Share Posted February 26, 2005 I do it in front of my girlfriend occasionally. I'm very comfortable with it. And while she watches, I think she's just more relieved that I'm not pressuring her to have sex that night. Yeah, our sex life sucks these days. Link to comment
Leges39 Posted February 27, 2005 Share Posted February 27, 2005 any girl i have been with enjoyed watching. many times i may be forced to do it anyway if they just don't get me over the top while having intercourse with a rubber. rubbers kill me, although my ex was always able to get me off while with a rubber...good chemistry in that case. Link to comment
June4life Posted February 28, 2005 Share Posted February 28, 2005 I have never "watched" my boyfriend- I did walk in on him once, and then I finished from there..... I dont think I would mind watching, but I really dont know! Link to comment
moe42 Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 My bf has done it a little in front of me when i dont feel like having sex or doing anything i dont know if its a turn on for me cause well ive never really stuck around long enough to find out i usually leave the room blushing a little which is weird cause were really open with eachother now (sexually) i dont think i would mind at all its just i have never really had time to watch lol Link to comment
abstar Posted April 27, 2005 Share Posted April 27, 2005 i actually don't like it when my boyfriend masturbates, when we first started dating i asked him that ( does he masturbate? ) and he said ( yes ) and then he asked me if it bothered me which really it does... my boyfriend and i have only had sex once, (which was the first for both of us) and i feel masturbating is a sign of being desperate! like i'm not enough for him or something... Link to comment
Mermaid Posted April 27, 2005 Share Posted April 27, 2005 i actually don't like it when my boyfriend masturbates, when we first started dating i asked him that ( does he masturbate? ) and he said ( yes ) and then he asked me if it bothered me which really it does... my boyfriend and i have only had sex once, (which was the first for both of us) and i feel masturbating is a sign of being desperate! like i'm not enough for him or something... You're only fourteen, so now is a good time to start working on changing that attitude! Masturbation is a healthy, normal activity and a great way for you to learn about your body. Link to comment
RayKay Posted April 27, 2005 Share Posted April 27, 2005 i actually don't like it when my boyfriend masturbates, when we first started dating i asked him that ( does he masturbate? ) and he said ( yes ) and then he asked me if it bothered me which really it does... my boyfriend and i have only had sex once, (which was the first for both of us) and i feel masturbating is a sign of being desperate! like i'm not enough for him or something... Hate to break it to you sweetie, but masturbation is normal and you will find most boys and men do it - even the married ones! It does not mean you are not good enough or anything like that, its often just a stress reliever for them....they don't want you to become just a sex machine after all as they often have urges all the time... And it is normal for women/girls too...and can improve your own sex life and orgasms as well. Link to comment
sweet_bebcho Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 My boyfriend very rarley does it without me there. He always wants me watch. He also loves to watch me do it. He curls up in a corner of the room and promises to be very silent so he can watch me do it! He came home one day with a gift box and when I opened it, he had gotten me one of the hugest vibrators I'd ever seen. I use it with him there but I put it under the sheet so he can see my reaction but he has no idea what I'm doing with it, his eyes open really wide like a child going to a themepark for the first time, its amazing! Link to comment
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