rainydays1 Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 been 2 months since not speaking to my ex...it's been a month since I found out she's now engaged. part of me doesn't think she's truly happy tho. I wanna contact her to let her know i'm thinking about her. b/c I am...everyday...and I dream of her often. is this a sign to contact her? should I break nc? Link to comment
mhowe Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 I think that the likelihood of her being "truly happy" now that she is engaged....is higher than you imagine. No. Do not contact her. Link to comment
Clinton Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 Bad, bad idea. The ship has sailed. Accepting over for good. Link to comment
rainydays1 Posted April 27, 2015 Author Share Posted April 27, 2015 she talked about getting engaged to me after the first month! I think it's something she feels she needs to do b/c of her age. she said she could be engaged but that doesn't mean we have to get married for a while. so she's probably doing to him what she did to me. talked about getting engaged, being together forever blah blah blah...he's a loser/sucker that believed all that. I took enough time and waited and look what happened BANG we broke up...I bet they won't last. 6 months and engaged isn't true love, it's just 2 desperate attention seeking people thinking they have to. thinking they want to b/c they are in the honeymoon phase. lets see a year from now where they are Link to comment
mhowe Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 This is a girl who likes to be engaged, clearly!! it's just 2 desperate attention seeking people thinking they have to. thinking they want to b/c they are in the honeymoon phase Then how come you want to talk to her? Link to comment
rainydays1 Posted April 27, 2015 Author Share Posted April 27, 2015 I don't know...and that's why i'm on here. I miss her/love her. or maybe it's my ego, a challenge to get her back? Link to comment
mhowe Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 I think its ego. She moved on, and quickly and you are being smart and healing. So ignore the urges to contact. They won't serve you well. Link to comment
rainydays1 Posted April 27, 2015 Author Share Posted April 27, 2015 shows her character tho, to just pick up and leave then get engaged so fast. shows me the floozy she really is. she's his problem now tho Link to comment
mhowe Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 shows her character tho, to just pick up and leave then get engaged so fast. shows me the floozy she really is. she's his problem now tho I wanna contact her to let her know i'm thinking about her. b/c I am...everyday Apparently it is still your problem too. Link to comment
rainydays1 Posted April 27, 2015 Author Share Posted April 27, 2015 ur right...so how do I make it NOT my problem? I'm obv seeking some advice here...some guidance deeper than "move on" that's the goal but need specific directions I think Link to comment
mhowe Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 Focus on YOUR life and your future. Make some plans for summer --- plan a trip. Get out of your head and into your life. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 I suggest you read through this ... link removed Link to comment
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