mhowe Posted April 23, 2015 Share Posted April 23, 2015 It has only been 4 days without contact. It doesn't matter that the break up was 2 months ago. Contact at this point is poison and brings you back to feeling lousy. It is normal to miss someone who has been part of your life for years. Link to comment
Lkut8 Posted April 23, 2015 Author Share Posted April 23, 2015 I'm just hoping that if I continue with the NC, it will make him miss me and try to initiate contact, to which I will ignore him showing him I'm moving on, and make him want me more and/or realize he screwed up or something. Link to comment
mhowe Posted April 23, 2015 Share Posted April 23, 2015 You are using NC to manipulate. It does not work that way. You are either moving on or you are placing yourself in limbo hoping that your disappearance will affect him. You have no control over what he is feeling. You only have control over your own mental health and life. Link to comment
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