Wolfman389 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Well my ex and I broke up end of june..she cheated but I finally stopped reaching out to her as she didn't want to talk anymore in September. ..night before my birthday dec 5th she sends me a text saying happy birthday and she hopes I have a great day tomorrow with a smiley...I said thanks but to not contact me since that's what she wanted in the first place...I said I missed her and her kid's and they will always have a special place in my heart but to stop...sh e didn't reply. ...what do I make of this? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 She honored your request, I think it's pretty straight forward. Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Nothing, accept the fact she wished you a happy birthday. Small talk, little nothings. Other than that, remember.. "she cheated " Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted December 7, 2014 Author Share Posted December 7, 2014 But why would she break no contact when she clearly wanted to stop communication? Link to comment
mhowe Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Because it was your bday. How many threads are on here debating the soooo important bday text? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 But why would she break no contact when she clearly wanted to stop communication? Why would this matter since you've already told her not to contact you? Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted December 7, 2014 Author Share Posted December 7, 2014 Well maybe a part of me wants to know why...I mean I still love her to death but she did me wrong.... Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted December 7, 2014 Author Share Posted December 7, 2014 I just know its better this way. ..I didn't want to tell her to go away but I know its ultimately the wise thing to do Link to comment
Tanzi Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 But why would she break no contact when she clearly wanted to stop communication? To wish you a happy birthday. She probably debated whether or not it was the right thing to do and decided that it was.You told her not to contact you so she is honouring that having realised that contacting was obviously not the right thing to do afterall. Link to comment
mg22 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Its a guilt thing, don't think much about it. Happy Birthday wishes but nothing else. If she wanted you back she would have contacted you earlier. Link to comment
floridasfinest Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 Trust me...you made the right choice. Not only did you stick up for yourself, but you showed her that you RESPECT yourself. Dont ever write anything else to her. She was probably feeling lonely and needed an excuse to text you and see if you bite. Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 Screw her and her breadcrumbs you deserve way better. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted December 8, 2014 Author Share Posted December 8, 2014 Well I am making small talk with her as I speak...idk I will always have a thing for her but she is important to me Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 Well I am making small talk with her as I speak...idk I will always have a thing for her but she is important to me That will delay your healing like you won't believe. Trust me. Been there. Link to comment
floridasfinest Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 I know how you feel...but trust me, it isn't going to get any better, and you are seriously wasting your time when you could be healing. Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 She cheated on you and the basic time she contacts is for your B-day? In time.. I'm sure you will come to realize what we're all saying here. It's for the best to NOT continue contact for your own well-being and to work on accepting what is and start healing. It takes a while to get over them, of course. But doesn't mean they are for us. Link to comment
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