Cherry009 Posted September 15, 2014 Author Share Posted September 15, 2014 I am trying to work out if he is just over excited, creepy, or on a serious rebound, a few clues through fb have made me think the break up with his ex was a matter of weeks ago, not months! My gut says run, but what do i say to him? i can't say there's no spark as we havent even met yet. Link to comment
t1lersm0m1 Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 You haven't met, so technically don't owe him any explanation. But if you want to say something (which is probably a nicer way to approach it anyway, rather than disappearing) just say that you have decided not to pursue things with him. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 I am trying to work out if he is just over excited, creepy, or on a serious rebound, a few clues through fb have made me think the break up with his ex was a matter of weeks ago, not months! My gut says run, but what do i say to him? i can't say there's no spark as we havent even met yet. "Thanks for your e-mail. On reflection I don't think we have enough in common to stay in touch. All the best to you." Link to comment
Cherry009 Posted September 15, 2014 Author Share Posted September 15, 2014 Thanks, he's text me a further 6 times since my last post on here so strange, never dealt with this before! Kind of creeping me out! Link to comment
YouCanDeleteThisAccount Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 Did you flat out tell him he's going overboard? He's not going to know how he's making you feel unless your straight up about it. Just tell him he's trying too hard and you just not interested. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 Yeah ... it actually is scary. Note how the women say run. We have to be very careful about our safety. OP, trust your gut. Link to comment
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