he is being immature

[aelynnryelis of greensky]

hi me and my b/f recently got back together and we were doing ok but now he is starting to get right back where he started. i mean he said he would change but he hasnt. he still acts inmuture about crap. and it drives me incane. i love him but i wish i didnt act this way.... what can i do to get through to him that he isnt being fair to me. i mean i cant hang out with my friends og go any where without him knowing or geting all huffy about it. i hate to say this but hes starting to act like my older sisters ex husband. and i dont want that .so what can i do???? i am really confused about it and its driving me up the frickin wall.. please give any advice you can to help..... thanx in advance.

[OceanEyes]

Well, I think at 15 it's going to be pretty tough to get a guy your age to stop being immature. He hasn't really grown up yet and that happens in our own time; it is different for everyone (but especially boys).

 

It sounds like he's being a bit clingy, which at your age, I would have probably found very unattractive also. I don't blame you for being frustrated. All you can really do is tell him straight - either give me some space and understand that I love my friends, or you won't be seeing me at all; you do not own me.

 

You should be able to spend time with friends at your age. Heck, my best memories from 15 are those spent with friends, not boyfriends.

[Prosper]

Hi Pal,

U dun have to feel obligated to let him know where u are. He is making u that u must tell him, but u can dun allow him to.

 

Besides, if u find the phone irritating, tell him where u are, keep the conversation short, switch off the hp and go and enjoy.

 

I believe at least u tell him, he is not worried, and he cant crap any excuse that u are with someone or whatever. And u can always tell him ur hp is low batt later on...

 

Thanks for reading..