aseeker Posted May 10, 2013 Share Posted May 10, 2013 I got a text, which I think is from my ex's mom from what I've read, but I don't have this number. She said she wanted to talk to me because my ex said we'd broken up and she'd like to know why. She said his justification didn't make sense and so she wanted to talk to me. She also asked me not to tell him please, as she had taken my number off his phone without him knowing. She only contacted me now which makes me think he only told her about it now (a month later, and after yesterday when we had a huge fight and he said we couldn't be friends anymore, even after he'd told me the opposite right after breaking up). The point is, it's weird. I don't like his mom and she doesn't like me, although she pretended to. And now she's asking to talk to me about this? Could this be him? Or could it be her wanting to spike me? I don't get why this now, and why would she want a reason why we broke up. It's not like I know it myself... Should I reply? Or ignore her? Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted May 10, 2013 Share Posted May 10, 2013 I would not call her. It is really none of her business and she it out line for asking you to call her. She sounds like a lot of drama. Link to comment
mhowe Posted May 10, 2013 Share Posted May 10, 2013 Ignore her. It is none of her business. And when I say ignore, I mean don't call her back or text her back. Act as though she never contacted you. Link to comment
Natasha24 Posted May 10, 2013 Share Posted May 10, 2013 Like others said, ignore her. I know it's hard because you want to know what is going on, but you don't need to add more stress/drama to yourself. Just ignore her and act like you never got her message. If it's him - it's pathetic to pretend to be his mom. If it's her - it's weird and immature to take your son's ex's number and contact her behind his back. You don't want to be involved in this drama. Just ignore it. Link to comment
MapleCanuck Posted May 10, 2013 Share Posted May 10, 2013 So pathetic. My mom called a bar looking for me once and I never loved it down. Oh, I was 13!!! Move on and ignore this woman. Your ex lost all man-points with this mommy move. Link to comment
aseeker Posted May 10, 2013 Author Share Posted May 10, 2013 I know, he's supposed to be 21 this month..... I don't know how I just know this woman will use my silence to start badmouthing me to other people, which shouldn't bother me but it does because many will believe I was indeed a ****** for not texting a reply when she sounded oh so concerned. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted May 10, 2013 Share Posted May 10, 2013 Why does he have to justify to his mommy why you 2 broke up? Link to comment
RachaelRosen Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 I know, he's supposed to be 21 this month..... I don't know how I just know this woman will use my silence to start badmouthing me to other people, which shouldn't bother me but it does because many will believe I was indeed a ****** for not texting a reply when she sounded oh so concerned. Actually, if that happens then sane people will think it's weird she's texting you in secret asking these things. And judge HER for it. I wouldn't worry. Ignore her and if necessary block her number. A lot of times people WILL ignore texts that are weird and awkward, you wouldn't be the first by far. Link to comment
aseeker Posted May 11, 2013 Author Share Posted May 11, 2013 Why does he have to justify to his mommy why you 2 broke up? Because she meddles into everything... And she always managed to interfere with our relationship at deeper levels than I would like to admit. Not that he should do it, or she should ask that of him. But that's how she is I guess. Actually, if that happens then sane people will think it's weird she's texting you in secret asking these things. And judge HER for it. I wouldn't worry. Ignore her and if necessary block her number. A lot of times people WILL ignore texts that are weird and awkward, you wouldn't be the first by far. I think you're right. I should stop caring so much anyway, when obviously none of them do. Little things like this only make me want to stay away from that family... I'm really starting to believe it was for the best that he broke up with me. His life had so much drama, I felt overwhelmed since I had my own problems to take care of. Maybe I acted as the mother he never had, because his biological one only criticizes and complains about everything. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 You could take a photo of that text and send to your ex. Your ex-boyfriend should know what a pig she is. Link to comment
petite Posted May 12, 2013 Share Posted May 12, 2013 What Miss Firecracker said, take a screenshot of the message and forward to your ex. Let him deal with her drama. Link to comment
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