mountaindew663 Posted November 4, 2004 Share Posted November 4, 2004 Allright, so this girl I use to like has been making some suddle gestures that she may like me (body lanuage, sitting near me, I've caught her several times staring right at me, etc..). But the last time i tryed to get her, she seemed, well not interested. And personally i don't feel like playing anyof her games. But any way, it seems like she might be afraid of me. When ever I'm near her talking to a friend, she acts nevous, and doesn't seem to see me, but when were alone, shes complety nice to me. The question I'm asking, is how would i re-approach her, and ask her out on a date, and/or make her more comfortable around me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Day_Walker Posted November 4, 2004 Share Posted November 4, 2004 Well you need to spend more time with her before you can even think of asking her out on a date. You have to build up her level of comfortabliity with you otherwise its not going to work. If you dont want to play any of her games then why do u want to reapproach her? Personally i would just let her go and focus on other girls, life is too short to chase after women that arent really interested in you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostlove Posted November 4, 2004 Share Posted November 4, 2004 i agree with day_walker. you need to get to know her well in order for her to feel more comforatable around you. talk to her a lot, and don't try to ask her out quite yet. oh, and it's subtle, not suddle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Santa Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Get to know her on the date. Thats what dates are for surely? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 You should ask her out! It sounds like she may like you, or want to get to know you better, but she may be shy. You should ask her to do something during the day, in a well lit place, like go and get lunch together, or go to Starbuck's. That way, it's casual but you two will get to talk to each other and get to know each other better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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