lostlove

There isn't a point. Pardon my pessimism, but I see no point in life other than to reproduce and survive one's species. The thing is, it's all we've got... You can make something for yourself. Music may not be easy to make profit in, but if it's what you love, then f*** that. Do it anyway. I'm an artist, and I know i'm gonna make a s*** living when I grow up, but it's my passion, and it's worth living for. Is your music enough to live for? If it's really, truly your passion, then that should be. p.s.--pardon my french mods!(¿por favor?)I felt it was necessary to get the point accross. good luck man. keep doing what you love.

give him some space. a lot of the time it ends up being the case that people are lying about suicide for attention, or a certain "image".

That's great--hope all goes well for you. If your friends won't accept you for who you are, whatever your sexuallity, then screw them. If they are TRUE friends, then they'll reallize(maybe not right away, but eventually), that your sexuallity does not define who you are--that you're still the same person, you're just attracted to girls.

Try asking him about what HE likes, and I'm sure he'll ask you as well in turn. Also, when he does something you like, make sure he knows it.

you shouldn't show it to people...that's such an obvious cry for attention. if you really want someone to care, get some professional help...don't put that burden on people you don't even really know.

you can't get over it because it was traumatic. have you considered that you may possibly have a post traumatic stress disorder? the way i've dealed with trauma from my past is through creative outlets-- acting, singing, and most of all visual arts like drawing and painting. also, when i went to a mental hospital last year, one thing we did every day that REALLY helped me, was we would all go down to the gym and scream as loud as we possibly could. it helped me to reallize that one shouldn't hold back they're emotions. if you need to cry, sob, shout, be angry, just do it. that's the best way to deal...being open and honest with yourself about what happened. things are gonna get better for you. i promise.

i've been kinda battling with that kind of thing lately as well. what i would suggest is not labeling your feelings. instead of saying "i'm straight" or "i'm bi", then maybe you could just kinda face it all with a step-by-step attitude. you don't have to know what your sexuality is. if you want to hook up with a girl, or have a relationship, then go for it. don't worry about labels like bi and straight, just act on what you feel. maybe it'll turn out that you do like girls, or maybe not. i mean, does it really matter? just don't change yourself to fit the norm of a specific sexuality. oh, and also, if it does end up being a "gay until graduation" thing, then that's okay, the really important thing is that you explore your feelings and your mind. good luck!

I think that this is a gigantic generalization. It's not fair to say this about all teens. There really are a lot of extremely mature teens out there, and although some of them do jump into sex too early for them, it's really different for everyone. Some people really are ready at this age, and the fantastic thing about teens giving teens sex advice is that because teens are probably more likely to listen to other teenagers, seeing as they will understand them more easily, protection is being highly encouraged. I think that it's really, really important to have safe sex, and safe sex is now being much more widely accepted, partially because teens are latching onto it, and giving eachother advice about this. Let's face it, adults did not grow up in the same world that today's adolecents did, and cannot relate to teens even nearly as well as their peers. Plus, I think you need to consider the specific circumstances of each case of teenage sex, because there shouldn't be an age limit on love. Did you ever think that some of these kids may really be in love?

i would actually recommend books that don't necessarily have much to do with moving on. they can distract you, and take you to another place for a little while. self help books are okay, but after a while they can just keep reminding you of all your problems...

perhaps another forum than "Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender" would be better suited for this post. you might get more replies if it is in a category forum that actually relates to the post itself.

fourteen.

yeah...she probably has a very high metabolism. also, if she is very active, then that may also play into it. there is, of course, always the possibility that she is bulimic, but that is doubtful-- i know people like this as well...and like i said, they just have high metabolisms naturally. one more thing-- sometimes the charts for what is underweight can be a little bit wrong. for example, i have a bmi of 16.8, but i am not considered underweight for my age. muscle mass is another thing that is not taken into account...you cannot truly get a completely accurate evaluation of your weight healthwise unless you go to a professional.

please, please don't kill yourself. give life a chance. maybe someday you'll find yourself saying how glad you are that you didn't do it. i know i have before. maybe you're dead right now. maybe it's too late. i don't know...but if you are there, then please, keep on going. if you ever want to talk to me, or anyone else here, don't hesitate. good luck. really.

i've heard a lot of different opinions on doggy style, so i'd ask her how she felt about it first. she may be uncomfortable with it. really, the only one who can give you the right answer to your question is her.

i used to be completely against cutting. then i started doing it when things started getting too hard to deal with. i personally feel that it saved me multiple times from suicide. it is not like alcohol and drug abuse, in a way where it doesn't build up on you over time, poisoning you slowly as drugs and alcohol do. cutting itself will not kill you as long as you are careful. drugs and alcohol can. as long as you take good care of your cuts(clean them, use neosporin, etc.), you should be okay. cutting doesn't get you high. it doesn't alter your judgement or personality dramatically. it temporarily clears your mind and helps you think. it makes you feel like everything's gonna be okay. RayKay-- when people use things like running, weight lifting, etc. as a form of SI, it really can hurt them. It isn't that much different, except for weight lifting too excessively can do damage to and overstrain your muscles. plus, with all physical activities as an excessive form of SI, you can overexert yourself, which can also be pretty dangerous.

people don't do it because they want to love, they want to have hope. they don't want to hurt the people who they love and love them, and really, it's scary. even if you think you know what comes after death, you can't be COMPLETELY positive. man's greatest fear is the unknown.

i work out because i want to be healthy, skinny, and happy.

maybe the problem isn't your penis, maybe it's your gf. seriously, 7" is above average, and you should be satisfied with it. if your gf is causing serious blows to your ego like that, maybe you should speak up the next time she does.

actually i do find the idea of two guys together attractive. i'm not really sure why though. sorry.

i feel like that all of the time...for me it's partially because i have extreme mood swings, but i guess it could be for different reasons in different people.

sorry i didn't realize someone had already posted that.

if you want to find out how proportionate you are according to height and weight, i would suggest figuring out your BMI(body mass index). You can probably find a website off of google that can caluculate this for you and tell you what weight class you are in. good luck!

no, not at all adam. you don't sound like a jerk in the least.

i am so confused right now. i need help desperately. i guess i'll fill you all in on the story here. i have gone through hell with a very, very good friend of mine, he hated me for this last year, and i was in love with him. i have loved him for over a year now. we made up about two months or so ago. in the past few weeks, we have been kind of "friends with benefits". we both love eachother, and we kind of decided that someday when we're adults, and we're ready for the kind of commited relationship that we want to have with eachother, then we will be together. but...he has a girlfriend right now. it makes me feel so terrible, because she's pretty, and he chose her to go out with right now, not me, and i feel so ugly, and i'm so jealous of her. i also don't like her as a person from what i've seen, AT ALL. i...i don't know what to do. i feel like although he loves me, she will always be first, and he loves her in a different way, a more loving way than he does me, where i think it's more sexual. again, i'm so confused....i....i just want to be loved. by him. i'm so lonely....

no, that doesn't mean that he's gay at all! i mean, he may still be gay, but the fact that he owns a dildo in no way signifies the possibility that he may be gay or ever bisexual. that's like asking if a lesbian is actually straight because she owns a dildo. it just means that he enjoys sexual pleasure. who doesn't? perhaps his sex life has been a little slow lately. good luck.