Seraphim Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 His friend should come before his wife??? I do not think so. Link to comment
happyfrank Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 That's his ex girlfriend. You shouldn't hold anything against her. She never did anything to you. Just greet her and move on. Link to comment
rask Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 I never said HE CAN'T INVITE HER TO HIS PARTY. I am saying HE SHOULDN'T INVITE HER TO HIS PARTY OUT OF RESPECT OF HIS LONG TERM FRIEND. Where is the contradiction? HE'S NOT inviting her, his wife is. His wife doesn't have the same relationship with your boyfriend. Link to comment
Huntress0527 Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 Time to let it go. You're trying to ram home your point. We get it- it's uncomfortable for you and your bf that she's there but that doesn't change the fact that you can't control who people invite into their home no matter what you think people should and shouldn't do. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 HE'S NOT inviting her, his wife is. His wife doesn't have the same relationship with your boyfriend. That is the key. The WIFE is friends with her. Op, you are making it sound like the wife's opinion does not matter and the man should fight with her to make you happy and his friend happy. This is not good. I can tell you if my husband had a fight with me to make his friend happy this would not be a pretty situation. So say she did not like someone you invite to your house for parties can she insight her husband to fight with your bf and call your feelings inconsequential? Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 How do you know she's being fake nice and not genuinely nice to you? Why would you be fake nice to her? So, she's your boyfriend's ex from 2 years ago..she didn't do anything to you. Who cares if she's his ex? Be an adult and realize that these situations will come up in life... Decline the invation or suck it up and go. I'm not trying to be rude but you seem to be acting a bit childish about this. I can understand being a little uncomfortable..a little awkward, maybe..but really there is no history between you two besides the fact that she once dated your boyfriend. You can't just dislike someone because they used to date the same person as you are now. Link to comment
Gilson Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 I don't want to sit in a small house with someone my boyfriend had a bad break up with to be fake nice to me. Nobody would. She's probably not even being fake nice as much as she's being adult about the situation. Perhaps everybody should cause a scene instead? Link to comment
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