motley107 Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Hi i been seeing this girl for a few weeks and the other night we were making out hands wandering oral everything but sex. We didnt have a condom so i asked her if it was ok no tto use one and she said no she didnt want me in her vagina with no condom but she said i could put it in her bum with no condom. we did it was pretty good she seemed to enjoy it after a while. Has this happened to you? have you let a guy do anal cuz your didnt have a condom? Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 She must have been a blonde. She didn't want to risk pregnancy by not letting you do it in her vag, but she forgot that you can get aids up the ass. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 oh dylan you are naughty ...but I wont rise to it .. op that is clearly something she likes ..so ...I wouldnt personally be sticking me ass up in the air because of lack of condom ..but each to their own Link to comment
JA0371 Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Ok.....EASY with the blonde jokes lol!!! But agreed..it's a really bad idea to have anal sex with no condom. Not an 'anal' girl myself, but I know enough to know that. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Anal is dangerous without a condom. I don't mean to be crude but the gay community in the US suffers from an AIDS epidemic. Do you know why that is? Okay I've done anal in my relationship without a condom but we are long term and both clean. That's really only when it is safe. Err I mean as safe as it can be. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Putting your penis anywhere near the butt/vagina area is gonna come with the risk of STD's such as AIDS, herpes, warts etc. I wouldn't let a guy near my butt full stop. But if I did unless we were both recently tested and clean it would be with a condom Link to comment
RachaelRosen Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 She must have been a blonde. She didn't want to risk pregnancy by not letting you do it in her vag, but she forgot that you can get aids up the ass. Lol this made me laugh. But seriously, OP, you can still get STDs from anal sex. Link to comment
octour Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 You actually have a higher chance of getting an STD with anal sex vs vaginal sex. Link to comment
bulletproof Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Hi i been seeing this girl for a few weeks and the other night we were making out hands wandering oral everything but sex. We didnt have a condom so i asked her if it was ok no tto use one... Why would you put yourself in that position? You can catch something from her, or get her pregnant. And, as everyone is saying here, her suggestion of anal instead is also incredibly risky. The two of you should buy a book about health/sex guide, you both need it. Link to comment
buddha55 Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 this makes no sense??? like, seriously... what was the point? you can still get STD's and actually pregnant. was this just an excuse for her to ask your to put it in her anally? Link to comment
capilot Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 You can't get AIDS from anal sex -- or any kind of sex -- unless one of the partners already has the virus. This is true for all STDs. You can't catch it if the other person doesn't have it. If both partners are infection-free, then the only reason to wear a condom is birth control. You don't need it for anal sex. So if Motley or his girlfriend have a reason to fear stds, then anal sex without a condom was a dumb idea (on both their parts). But if not, then no problem. Link to comment
greywolf Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 You can't get AIDS from anal sex -- or any kind of sex -- unless one of the partners already has the virus. This is true for all STDs. You can't catch it if the other person doesn't have it. If both partners are infection-free, then the only reason to wear a condom is birth control. You don't need it for anal sex. So if Motley or his girlfriend have a reason to fear stds, then anal sex without a condom was a dumb idea (on both their parts). But if not, then no problem. The OP said that he had only been seeing the girl for a few weeks, which I think is risky. Link to comment
JohnGalt Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 LOL! Keep condoms with you. Also, if you have sex without one, go to CVS and get Plan B. Also, get tested . . . seriously. Before anal play, both partners should be tested. Link to comment
bulletproof Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 You can't get AIDS from anal sex -- or any kind of sex -- unless one of the partners already has the virus. This is true for all STDs. You can't catch it if the other person doesn't have it. I think everyone here is aware that someone has to have a disease in order for someone else to catch a disease. They've known each other a few weeks, and didn't mention that they'd had any kind of STD test. Link to comment
SpookyWooky Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 She must have been a blonde. She didn't want to risk pregnancy by not letting you do it in her vag, but she forgot that you can get aids up the ass. naughty little bastard is right but so true no wommy would dare to wanna get it up her ass or the man do this without wearing a sleeve on his banana Link to comment
metrogirl Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Any kind of unprotected sex with someone you have only begun sleeping with and no nothing about is risky. It's doesn't matter if it's vaginal or anal, he doesn't know how many other guys she has slept with unprotected previously. It's just not smart. Link to comment
Rangafro Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 Just to add - even if nobody has an STD it doesn't mean you don't risk some kind of infection. There are still a lot of micro-organisms there that can be dangerous if spread from one person to another, or to different parts of the body. Remember it is basically a waste chute. I still wouldn't recommend anal without a condom, it just makes it easier to contain. Don't be that guy - carry your own condoms in the future. Link to comment
capilot Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 The OP said that he had only been seeing the girl for a few weeks, which I think is risky. Ahhh, missed that part. Too early to not be using condoms. Link to comment
Roxie84 Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 She must have been a blonde. She didn't want to risk pregnancy by not letting you do it in her vag, but she forgot that you can get aids up the ass. ^ This just made me fall of my chair laughing!!!!! No, I would not allow someone to have anal sex with me without a condom. Not gonna happen. It seems that her main concern is pregnancy, and she should be educated as to her options. Some women enjoy anal sex. I, for one, do not. Link to comment
Guevara Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 Definitively a bad idea. Anal sex is a thing of trust imo because of the pain it can bring if not done right and the higher chance of STDs if that person is not practicing safe sex...well actually both of you since you actually went for it. Link to comment
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