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JohnGalt

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JohnGalt last won the day on January 7 2013

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  1. Yeah, I mean, nothing has changed. I had a weak moment. Back to NC for me.
  2. Actually she responded. Not mean or anything.
  3. Broke no contact. oh well. Sent her a text. 5 minutes ago. No reply. She won't reply. She's over me. I am finding it hard to move on.
  4. Make that Day 1. LOL. I sent some popcorn to my ex that she hadn't had in 2 years. It is a special brand. She's always talking about it. Just told her to enjoy snacking on it while she studies for finals. I sent it a while back, arrived today. She reached out with the thank you good memory stuff. We sent some emails back and forth. Now back to NC.
  5. Day 8 - I have no urge to actually reach out to my ex. I know where I stand. I know where she stands. I'm also not doing no contact to heal. That's stupid. I don't need it to heal. I'm doing it because I don't want to be her friend or be in her life if I can't be her boyfriend/fiancee/husband. Hopefully she'll come back in a few weeks or months. So yup. Day 8.
  6. probably had a dream and had the urge to contact.
  7. I think you know, friendship is something that is just as sacred as a relationship and it also gives the dumpees a little bit of power where the dumper wants to stay friends. As far as I'm concerned, my friendship is a perk of the relationship. No relationship? No friendship. And it doesn't make me feel bad. You dumped me as a romantic partner. I dumped you as a friend. Seems fair to me.
  8. How about work on your own marriage or give your husband a divorce. This type of stuff makes me not want to get married.
  9. Ghost - it is all about you man. Start from Day 1 if you want or continue from Day 3. The NC Challenge is about discipline and making it a habit. The idea is not to go to 30 days and then start contacting your ex. It is to prove that you CAN go 30 days so you can go another 30 and another 30 until you're fully healed.
  10. I am only on day 3 of no contact, but I think i'm at a turning point because I don't think I'll be thinking about my ex anymore. I'm going on a date with a girl I've had a crush on for years. And all i can think about is not messing up.
  11. Wow. A whole week. Might not seem like a lot, but I am amazed that I've gone an entire week without contacting her. In one way I feel like this is necessary for healing. In another way I think it is a game. First one that breaks no contact loses. I'm very competitive and refuse to lose.
  12. Hey pumpkin, Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you had a great one. -John
  13. Still doing no contact. The problem with me is that I'm prone to break no contact for no particular reason at all. I'll go all day without thinking of talking to her, but then one fleeting thought and I'm almost thirsting to contact her. I ALMOST did it again tonight, but refrained. No Contact in tact.
  14. So want to reach out to her and invite her to see a movie. I haven't. I've kept no contact, but my emotions are on edge this morning. My mind believes that there is a chance. My heart is hurting.
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