PrettyGood Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 3 days ago he broke up with me. I don't count the previous days as NC, because when he broke up, I was so shocked and paralyzed that I was lying in my bed for the 3 days from the early morning till the late night reading this forum threads, crying and contacting him about my stuff. I didn't begged to get back with him at all, I just begged for my stuff, because he rejected my feelings when I wanted to tell him I love him. So finally he came yesterday night and returned my stuff. He didn't look to my eyes and tried to return everything as soon as possible. I was very friendly - thanked him for my stuff and wished good luck. He didn't say any goodbye just drove out of my street as fast as possible. So I returned home and still felt like zombie - emotionless, like he drained everything and finally just late at night I took him out of my fb contacts, removed our mutual friends also and started crying heavily. Today is NC day 1. I've noticed that success came to my university (I get the best marks, everyone is happy about my results) and in 2 days I got 3 invitations to job interview. So I dressed as best as I can and went there. I've been pretty busy today so I wasn't thinking a lot about him. I opened my profile on the dating websites again and the only time I got the fb message from someone, I felt frozen, thinking "Omg, you haven't tried to contact me, have you?!" For my luck, it wasn't him. I don't know why I felt easier at that time, but I think it's just because he wasn't happy about me at all and he was always angry on me for anything I do or say. So now I'm just selling my clothes which I bought to look nice being next to him and ordering the new clothes from the internet. I've deleted all his videos from my mobile phone without looking them and downloading new songs playlist for my player and mobile phone ringtones which wouldn't remember me him. I don't know if he ever contact me, but he'd better not. I feel like I've escaped from jail. Link to comment
JANC Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 All I can say is well done you. I hope you continue in this mannor and get over this guy quickly. You know if you have bad days you can come here instead of being tempted to contact him Have a great weekend James Link to comment
Mariana345 Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 You are doing great!! I am so happy for you, I hope he won't contact you, and you can go and better you life Good luck!! Keep moving forward!! Link to comment
PrettyGood Posted November 9, 2012 Author Share Posted November 9, 2012 Thank you guys for sincerity Are you in the DMV? And what does that stand for to reply to your question? Link to comment
JohnGalt Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 District of Columbia, Maryland, Virginia. Story sounds just like a friend of mine Link to comment
PrettyGood Posted November 9, 2012 Author Share Posted November 9, 2012 District of Columbia, Maryland, Virginia. Story sounds just like a friend of mine Oh, no... I am not even from that continent But it's good to know that at least I am not the only one in such similar situation Link to comment
Tom1990 Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 Well done! Keep us updated with your progress. Link to comment
zep Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 Sounds good! I recommend removing as many forms/ways of contact as possible. It's easier to deal with all the BS of changing your phone number than realizing every hour that he hasnt called. Also, if you block him on fb you'll never have to worry about getting a message from him Link to comment
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