JANC

Goodbye and goodluck

BTW. If you are struggling at any point of the break watch the following film. Forgetting Sarah Marshall Honestly you watch him trying to cope with the break up and it helps you. Well everyone is different but it helped me alot..........lol

Its great to find a place where everything makes sense instead of most of the crap on the internet. Yes I was dumped after 4 years and it hurt like hell. I was never able to show this girl my true feeling due to childhood abuse but I am now in a better place but without her. She finished it via text message but we did see each other a few times landing up in bed but I just could not help myself texting her stupid amounts asking if she still wanted me. I just asked her to tell me it was over but she never replied. Finally I called and someone called back saying it was her new number and to stop calling. So please everyone listen to what has been said on the site. Do not contact your ex. NC is the only way. I have learned this now and have not contacted her for a Month. Yes it hurts but not as much as being made to look a fool. Will she ever come back? Doubt it but I am getting on with my life. Yes drink is not good but it helped me get rid of my feelings. Delete EVERYTHING of your ex. This means no stupid calls in the middle of the night. They dump you and by acting like I did you show them WHY they are correct. The more you contact them the more they know that they can have fun knowing you are there as a safety net if things do not work out Would I take her back now? Yes I would still but its getting better as I am keeping myself busy by going out and meeting new people. I am not looking for someone new but being in different company really helps as I move to a new town and knew no one so went out myself and made friends. Anyway listen to the great advise on here and whatever you do make sure its NC all the way. As so many people have said I wish I had found this site back in June ...........lol