A friendship with EX healthy?

[ChellyV]

This ex of mine is the one that I have loved the most, hurt the most, and stupid the most. The nature of the break up was, he said he was not ready for a relationship. No third party, no attitude issues, etc. The BU was in March 2011.

 

He apparently is pursuing friendship as he would communicate with me every so often, send me photos of him every now and then, text about his activities. I never initiated any of these contacts. At first I was hesitant, due to the fact that he in an LDR all posted in his facebook, a place I never was (facebook hype, that is). I do not know what to do at this time. Truth be told, I am at a place right now where if he contacts, it is ok, if he doesn't it is ok too. I have everything under control, so to speak. After this ex, I have a more recent ex of which I am quite struggling right now to get over with.

 

What is the best way to handle this?

[pl3asehelp]

Cut all contact unless you have kids. Nothing to be gained and lots to lose.

[Johnny Utah]

If you don't want a relationship, let it end. Communicate less and less.

 

Your most recent ex should be your focus. Getting over that. Otherwise you have too many problems at once and it can only lead to complications.