Once a lie is told - it can't be undone. How to deal

[-Sanguine-]

I feel like this was pretty much inevitable. You didn't trust him to begin with so you would have found a lie eventually whether there was one or not. I don't think he should have lied, but I don't blame him either. You are pushing him away. You need to relax a bit and sort out your issues on your own time before you go attacking him about what he's doing and if he's lying - etc. Believe me.. I have been in your situation before and it's hard to control yourself sometimes. But you HAVE to do it if you want to stay in your relationship.

[Miss Firecracker]

Boyfriend lies to his ex and lies to you...then wll lie to the next one. He needs a girlfriend who enjoys lies and illegal drugs.

[csr14]

That's a little harsh I think.