summer33 Posted June 12, 2012 Author Share Posted June 12, 2012 you're right. i remember even during times that he would do something and it would be completely his fault such as - one time he stood me up and wouldn't pickup my calls or texts to give me a real explanation, and then the next day when he finally called me back he turned it around on me and was angry at me for "blowing his phone up". So, he used reverse psychology on me. You're right. Screw him. He's a hot piece of douchebaggery. You would think that I would know better having been in a long term emotionally abusive relationship before where the guy would call me names and gave me really low self-esteem. Link to comment
The_Seeker Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 you're right. i remember even during times that he would do something and it would be completely his fault such as - one time he stood me up and wouldn't pickup my calls or texts to give me a real explanation, and then the next day when he finally called me back he turned it around on me and was angry at me for "blowing his phone up". So, he used reverse psychology on me. You're right. Screw him. He's a hot piece of douchebaggery. You would think that I would know better having been in a long term emotionally abusive relationship before where the guy would call me names and gave me really low self-esteem. ;] Yay babygirl! Get yourself back. don't ever let this guy in or else you'll lose opportunity on the next guy who could be better for you! Link to comment
thehardestpart Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 ' Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.' =) Link to comment
summer33 Posted June 13, 2012 Author Share Posted June 13, 2012 OMG - HE CALLED ME TODAY. What is going on?!?!?!?!??! I picked up because I was in my car and I just hit the talk button without seeing who it was (I promise). We talked and he asked me if I accept his apology and he said he did call me to say sorry --- he said "I promise". He was like do you forgive me?? I was like I forgive you, because I am not the type that holds grudges against people. He was like there was so much going on, and I should not have let so much time go by blablabla. Then his mom called so he had to go and he said he would call me back in 5 minutes. He didn't call back --- instead he sent a text saying "I have to go over to my mom's real quick, but I'm glad we talked. I feel a lot better." I didn't respond to that. Then he just now texted me "what are you doin?" I haven't responded. I don't understand what's going on. Is he trying to reel me in again? Did he have a realization? blah I don't understand men. Link to comment
The_Seeker Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 Are you freakin kidding me? You forgave him. Damn, you make me feel like I'm a Sinner and you're a Saint. Link to comment
summer33 Posted June 13, 2012 Author Share Posted June 13, 2012 I only forgave him, because my mom taught me that you should always forgive people and never hold grudges no matter what they do to you. Life is too short for that. Link to comment
summer33 Posted June 13, 2012 Author Share Posted June 13, 2012 and people do crappy things to you, but you should never stoop to their level, i suppose. keep your character good, cause karma will get to these people. Link to comment
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