tygrrlyght Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 There is this girl. We will call her Sally. Sally went over to Jack's house. Jack wanted to have sex, but Sally didn't. Sally resisted, but finally tired of it and let Jack enter her. She knew she didn't want to do this, and felt violated when he began to have sex with her. She wasn't excited so it hurt her very much. Sally scratched Jack's back with pain, whimpering and crying out that it hurt very much, but he did not stop, nor acknowledge what she was saying for a while. Ten minutes later he asked her if it hurt, and she said yes very much, and his reply was, I'm going to do it again ( the penetration that caused her so much pain). He kept going until he saw her crying, and then only asked what was wrong, not if she wanted to stop. She had to push him off before he would stop. Sally did not consent to this sexual intercourse. Is this considered rape? Link to comment
ladyluck Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 personally i would say so. she must be haveing a really hard time dealing with it. rape can have a bad impact on self esteem plus the trust they may have for anyone else. i'm really sorry that she had to go through something like that. I have had countless friends who have been raped, malestered and it not only took them along time to get over it but some times they resorted to sex or drugs to alter their state of consciousness so they wouldn't have the feeling of being completely useless or perverted. just help her to stay strong and not let the pain hold her back from living a happy life. Link to comment
tygrrlyght Posted September 30, 2004 Author Share Posted September 30, 2004 thanks for your help. I agree with you entirely, and yes she is having a lot of trouble dealing with it. She cant sleep and she refuses to eat. I know shell pull through this though, shes a very strong person. Your words are ones to live by; Ill be sure to pass the message on to Sally. Link to comment
dizzymeg Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 Yes that is most definitly rape. She said no. He did it anyway. She even started crying and he still kept going... what the hell kind of a guy is he anyway? What a creep. Stay far away from Jack. Btw. Rape is not about sex. He had to have known that she didn't like it and he should stop when she FIRST said no. It is a control thing. He liked the control he had of the situation and he liked that she was helpless. He is a coward. She should call the police and report him and seek some help. Link to comment
Thingmaker Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 Of course that's rape. She resisted. Link to comment
Sexychiick16 Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 Yeah...Does this dude not have any consent for her feelings and why wouldnt he stop...That is considered rape..IS sally his girlfriend? or is jack and sally just Friends? If bf and gf the reason sally was crying but didnt say to stop until later might be becuase she cares about Jack! Link to comment
Amethyst Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 "Sallie" definitely needs to tell a trusted adult what happened and get into counseling! I'm sure she won't WANT to tell, but she NEEDS to. Keeping this inside will only hurt her even worse. I've been there, so I understand what it's like. She also needs to consider that "Jack" could easily rape someone else (if he hasn't already), so she needs to do what she can to stop him. Link to comment
i_hate_the_world47 Posted October 3, 2004 Share Posted October 3, 2004 Yes,that is most definitely rape.She said no,cried,scratched at him and he still kept going.Sally needs to report this so jack gets whats coming to him. ~Meagan~ Link to comment
hurtwou Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 yes, its consdiered rape, she told him to stop and he didnt. Link to comment
I_love_rain_hugs_and_you Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 Why would you ask such a question??? If this is a true story, then it should be reported to some authorties, who will decide whether or not something criminal happened. If it didn't happen, then don't make up stories. Sex is supposed to be about love, and something that both partners enjoy and are excited about. It is never an obligation, and it never involves hurting one's partner, even with consent. Rather than thinking about sexual assaults, why don't you write about the beauty or romantic and loving sex, esp. that which is found within a committed relationship ((ie. marriage)..... Link to comment
Gracelove Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 That is probably rape. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 Yes, it is, she told him to stop and cry and he didn't. Dang, why are there so many jerks and creeps, wish they didn't exist. Link to comment
Jeffe Posted December 5, 2005 Share Posted December 5, 2005 Yes, it is rape. Please get help for Sally, and inform the authorities about Jack. *!$(#$@( It makes me angry and frustrated that things like this even happen. Link to comment
Bethany Posted December 5, 2005 Share Posted December 5, 2005 Although I agree that it was wrong, I don't think that it would stand up in a court of law because of the fact that she went to his house and you siad that she 'let' him. Tell her not to be so trusting and go to anyone's house alone again. Link to comment
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