too much red flags

[ChellyV]

i dated someone briefly for about 2 months, but there is just too much red flags, that my doubts seem to eat me up. i decided i cannot do this, i am not putting myself through this.

 

- went on vacation for 10 days, did not call or email or text at all! nothing.

- weekends when he is off work, cannot call, cannot answer my calls, cannot text. maybe he is married?

- doesnt apologize for missed appointments with me but acts like he is entitled to it?

 

so i am letting it go. and as i was talking to him yesterday on the phone to request a personal meeting, he demanded to know right away on the phone. what was i even thinking going out with this person?

 

aaarrrggghhhh

[EmmaB78]

Ugh. Sorry. Good for you for getting out early!

[blueidealist24]

I think you were right to end it. He's probably married or has another gf.

[Stay_home]

We make time for the things that we want.

[laninaperdida]

At least you weren't one of those girls who ignored the red flags!

2 months turns into 2 years and an unwanted baby, you know?

It's frustrating, yes, but at least you're out and abut for bigger and much, much better,

[Rose30]

Good for you for seeing the signs early and getting out

[HeartGoesOn]

You're making a wise choice.

 

Too many people clearly can see the writing on the wall, yet they try to convince themselves that it doesn't apply to them.

[ChellyV]

thank you thank you thank you...guess i am too old for this brouhaha....LOL...

have had a lot of drama in my lifetime, do not want another one....