AM I?

[u know it]

i think i am a homosexual i masterbate to gay porn, but i have a girlfriend and i love her WHAT DO I DO

[Mun]

Hi there,

Do you love her like a sister or is it romantic love? You may just be bisexual. I saw on the net the other day a survey about the degree to which one might be attracted to the same sex. Something like attraction, attraction with desire to explore, have already tried it...etc.

 

Have you ever felt the desire to "try"something with another man? Some guys are bi-curious.

 

If you love her then stay with her. I don't know why you would break up at this point.

 

Sorry no answers--just more questions. I guess this is something you only know the answer to in the end.

[sisterlynch]

I hope that you don't make any permanent plans with this lady, like promise to marry her or to have children.

 

You should at least tell her of the issues in your life, if you can't handle her knowing then see a psychologist and break up with the girl.

[chanceit]

are you happy with you current situation? what would make you happy?

 

If you enjoy gay porn and still love and find your girlfriend attractive - whats the problem. You don't have to fit in to a neat gender group.

[RobzGr8]

Masturbating to gay porn does not make you gay. Curious...yes. Gay...no. For some people, it's the kinkyness of it. It could be turning you on because it's something you've never seen before and they fact that it's "forbidden" is really getting you off.

 

The fact that you are not revolted by it could also mean that you are curious about other men...but who cares? Everyone in their life goes through a period of finding themselves. Almost everyone experiments with same sex...sex. In one form or another. Be it masturbating to pictures on the internet, watching a gay porno movie, or having actual contact with another guy, everyone "experiments" a little.

 

If you can satisfy your curiosity by masturbating, I wouldn't worry about being full fledge gay. You could grow out of it. You don't masturbate to the Frederick's of Hollywood catalogue anymore right? You'll get tired of it eventually.

 

But, if you find yourself fantasizing about men, and wanting to meet them to play around, then you could be gay. Or at least VERY curious. Most men who later discover they are bi or gay, usually are willing to go all the way to find out.

 

If you still like sex with women...eh...you're bi. No biggie. Sex with men could just be a release where as sex with a woman is out of love. But, in these beginning stages, it's hard to tell. You might go gay, bi, or straight. It's too early to tell. Just go with your desires...they'll lead you in the right direction.

[under_the_pressure]

Well, I have a silmilar 'problem' as yours but I don't think too much about it. I'm a female and if I'm watching a guy with a girl it doesn't do too much for me. If I'm watching two girls though, then....well you know. And I have a boyfriend. But I don't stress on it. Because I know I couldn't give up guys COMPLETELY because they have 1 thing women don't.

 

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[u know it]

but i have absolutley no interest in doing that stuff AT ALL... and i love my girl friend rmantically i was j/w if i was gay but i dont think i am now