LastMan Posted January 14, 2012 Share Posted January 14, 2012 All alone tonight, just boozing and browsing the web. Feelin' down about the ex, of course, though it's getting better every day. All of a sudden I receive two texts from two different ex-girlfriends. The first I had to ignore because I don't want anything to do with her. And the second I had to ignore because I'm trying to get over her (she's riding some other guy's right now). Sigh, how did it come to this. OK, done whining. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 so the second was the one that's causing the misery ? what did she say ...have you both carried on texting since you split or is this an ex ex glad it's getting better day by day Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 you do make me chuckle ...a chump haha you have got some will power I tell you that , especially as your having a tough day .. why the calls ...why do people do this ... we turn into strange creatures in a break up huh ! Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 hi last man you feel any better ? did she text again about the thingymajig that we can't mention ? did you manage not to text ? is the moon made of cheese ? Link to comment
LastMan Posted January 15, 2012 Author Share Posted January 15, 2012 hi last man you feel any better ? did she text again about the thingymajig that we can't mention ? did you manage not to text ? is the moon made of cheese ? I'm not sure how I feel...maybe a little guilty for ignoring her? I never responded to the text. It's a bit complicated. I cheated on her (no sex but I came home with a hickey one night from some girl that was all over me). The fallout from that was pretty bad and I can't really blame her for wanting to be with someone else. However, that doesn't mean that I'm gonna hang around and be her girlfriend while she's living it up with her new boy. I mean, I want what I want. And what I want is her, on my terms. Right now she probably hates me even more for not responding, so it's a raw deal. And yeah, the moon is cheese, Vermont sharp cheddar to be precise. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 And yeah, the moon is cheese, Vermont sharp cheddar to be precise so bottom line ... are you resisting breaking NC in the hope that she will miss you/get over it/leave this fella ...and if she does come back on your terms ...hahaha ..your terms ...*chuckling* will you get over the fact she has been with someone else ? well she can't be that mad with you , texting to open a debate on one of your chosen subjects ! Link to comment
LastMan Posted January 15, 2012 Author Share Posted January 15, 2012 *chuckling* will you get over the fact she has been with someone else ? That's a good question...I really don't know. There's a lot of guys who would never even consider taking their ex back once they've slept with someone else. Me, I'm not so sure...people like to have sex and I try not to take it personally. I mean she was with others before I even met her so is it really that big of a deal? And yeah, I'm hoping she'll have a change of heart once she realizes I'm gone for good. I think the real question is would she ever respect me if I took her back after this...quite the dilemma. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I am actually surprised after been on here just how many WILL get over it and are prepared to dismiss it ....It's good though , I have just presumed I suppose that it then taints a relationship ...so it's good to see so many people adopt a healthy attitude and are prepared not make it a deal breaker. ..it has changed my perception of what I thought the general attitude is . So no , its not a big deal in the grand scheme of things ..I suppose any given situation is only as big as we ourselves make it ..you get some throw a complete flunky over not getting a text back in ten minutes and those that forgive countless affairs. I guess we have to find a balance between acting impossible and being a doormat. I hope she does have a change of heart ...stranger things have happened hey let me put the question back on you ..why do you think she wouldn't respect you if you took her back ? In my experience and the people I mix with ...if they haven't got that respect then they wouldn't go back anyway . Link to comment
LastMan Posted January 15, 2012 Author Share Posted January 15, 2012 let me put the question back on you ..why do you think she wouldn't respect you if you took her back ? In my experience and the people I mix with ...if they haven't got that respect then they wouldn't go back anyway . She probably wouldn't respect me because she'll think I can't "do better". She'll be thinking "Wow I dumped this guy and slept with another right after and he's still giving me the time of day? He must be really desperate or I'm just that great! Tee-hee!" Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 see you lot think differently to us lot .... what more can I say Link to comment
LastMan Posted January 16, 2012 Author Share Posted January 16, 2012 Well, I let curiosity get the better of me and finally responded to her text. Her: Do you think (redacted) is a capitalist vulture? 2 days later... Me: phone was broke, no i don't think that Her: Oh ok bc that was what that guy or whoever that u told me u liked said Me: uh huh Her: I was reading an article at the time I sent u that--I've lost interest in the subject now- Me: k Doesn't sound like a woman who is very interested, lol. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 oh dear you do make me chuckle so much ... you didn't exactly dive in with much to even encourage chat or debate ... uh huh ..is not really getting you on the debate team is it ? so she got huffy and played it down .. but joking aside I know you want her back and this to be right so its hard to know what to do for the best ... because after all , we have to protect ourselves first and foremost ... are you ok ? I presume back to NC Link to comment
LastMan Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 oh dear you do make me chuckle so much ... you didn't exactly dive in with much to even encourage chat or debate ... uh huh ..is not really getting you on the debate team is it ? so she got huffy and played it down .. but joking aside I know you want her back and this to be right so its hard to know what to do for the best ... because after all , we have to protect ourselves first and foremost ... are you ok ? I presume back to NC I feel like I'm walking on eggshells with her so I try to be as blunt and distant as possible. You're right about wanting to protect myself as she has a tendency to blow up and get angry at me (thin line between love & hate? haha i wish). But yeah I never initiate contact with her. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 I couldn't be blunt or distant ...so I was probably overpowering at the other end of the scale ..then if I felt I said too much or the wrong thing I would be back tracking .... so you can see where NC is needed for clarity if nothing else . I don't know whether you feel it so much but you do sound very strong . Link to comment
JA0371 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Text messaging is extremely frustrating for me...and only use it when I HAVE to. Soooo many miscommunications with texting. Guess I'm old school in that way. Much rather hear someone's voice. Link to comment
JA0371 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Sorry, my point was to stop responding to her texts until she has anything worthwhile to respond to..otherwise you're wasting your key strokes ... Link to comment
LastMan Posted January 21, 2012 Author Share Posted January 21, 2012 Well the latest BS text just rolled in: "Hi (my nickname) what's instrument called that's a miniature piano. I remember u saying u liked its driving me nuts" Her grammar is usually good so I believe she's drunk. Respond or no? C'mon guys let's have fun with this, cause I really don't even care anymore at this point. Link to comment
doiiiieeezie Posted January 21, 2012 Share Posted January 21, 2012 Nope, I wouldn't. She will continue on and on with these worthless texts when in all cases, she could use a useful tool called Google. When she texts you with something that is of substance, then you should respond. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 21, 2012 Share Posted January 21, 2012 I'm growing quite fond of her and her randoms Link to comment
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