Based on these texts, would you say it's over for good?

[LastMan]

So I've been in LC (for financial reasons) with my ex who broke up with me about 2 months ago.

 

Reasons for the break-up:

 

1) I cheated and tried to lie about it, she "forgave" me but then checked out of the relationship

 

2) Her coworker was giving her all the attention that I had failed to maintain in the latter stages and she couldn't trust herself not to hook up with him

 

After the breakup I tried to show contrition and hung around for too long, realize now that I came off as a creep.

 

Throughout our brief texting she has said the following things:

 

Her: Its ok to show convey emotions (my name). I hope one day you truly understand that. If you didn't bottle everything up we would've had a more intimate relationship and you wouldn't have acted so weird at the end of things.

 

Her: I'm just disappointed at the way things turned out in general. I just hope that you are happy.

 

Her: You may not believe it but I wish you luck. I may have to move eventually as well (she always leaves out periods when she wants me to respond back, I didn't respond to this one)

 

Is there any sense in reading in to this a possible desire to reconnect down the road? Or has she truly moved on?

 

Mainly looking for female insight. As you can see, I'm having a hard time letting this one go.

[mhowe]

No possible desire to reconnect. She is just doing a review of the creepy end, and wishing you better luck next time ---- but not with her.

[Eocsor]

Really, who knows what the future will bring. Trying to predict behaviour based on that is impossible.

 

BUT, if you want my opinion, you are done and it's time to move on.

[No1]

yes, its done, you are not quite accepting it is over. Its over. Let her go, and continue to move forward with your life