JU27 Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 I have been seeing a guy for 8 months. I met him 8 months ago at a coffee shop. I met a couple other people since then, but he has been the only one I've been seeing. We have been seeing eachother pretty consistently since then. He always asks me when I'm going to kiss him, and I haven't yet. He has said that he likes me a lot. However, when we're together he doesn't try to touch me. He doesn't really try to get to know me, although our conversations seem to be good. There's not a lot of depth to them, though. I like him, but still don't know much about him, I feel like. Recently, he said he wants to give me oral sex. I think I made a mistake by saying ok....Also I think I made a mistake by mentioning sex a few times ( I just haven't been intimate in a really long time). But then I said I'm only comfortable with that if we are in a commited relationship. He said that we are, and that he is my boyfriend. He'se asked me a couple times about doing oral...I probably should have never mentioned it. However, we don't see eachother often (once a week at the most, if that). He never texts or calls me. I'm always the one to text first. Even then, he rarely replies to me. I mentioned this when I saw him, and he said he'se trying to get better at replying. I can see how he would be frustrated with us not kissing yet, and he'se been really patient so far. I just can't tell if he'se into me. He doesn't initiate a lot with me. We have never been on a real date (other than meeting at the coffee shop). I have mentioned going to the movies, or going to a resturaunt a couple times, but it hasn't gone anywhere. Also, since we've been seeing eachother so long, I went into his house and layed on his bed with him a couple times. Even then, he didn't try to cuddle with me very much. We didn't do anything beyond laying next to eachother. So, I don't know if I should have sex with him now, because we haven't gone on any dates or anything (when we meet we sit in my car and talk). Also, I'm really new to dating, and a little clueless I admit. What do you think? Link to comment
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