Can NC cause her to stop loving me?

[Jyebo]

Hi

 

Just a quick question.

 

I have been broken up with my ex for 6 weeks now. I havn't spoken to her in about 10 days. I'm not doing NC to make myself feel any better as I feel worse not talking to her, I'm doing it to try and give her a chance to miss me. She said she still loves me, but things aren't right at the moment.

 

My question is - Can NC actually work in the reverse? Can it cause your ex to stop thinking about you and stop loving you?

 

Thanks for your input

[evepm]

Dear Jyebo:

 

I don't think that n/c will cause her stop loving you. If her love is real than she will feel it no matter what.

 

Eve

[SuperDave71]

The no contact allows BOTH partners to take a step back from one another and regroup (Meaning you focus on yourself rather than the relationship) This also allows you to think about why and how the relationship ended and possibly how you want it to be when you get back together. Hang in there and keep your chin up. I have been there too....stay focused on your goal and try to be patient.

 

 

REMEMBER: Good thing come to those who wait!!!

 

 

-Your Friend,

 

 

 

SuperDave71

[Mix Maxster]

No Contact CAN cause them really lose their feelings as they can forget about you, but if that happens how good was the relationship? I will go further to say, if they forget about you or lose their feelings completely... shouldn't that be your sign to move on? I dunno, you should tell me.