star111 Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 I read the book, I know it's that simple. But god it's frustrating, how the heck do you find someone that is into you with all the competition out there- with the ease of online dating. I got the 'I'm not ready to start dating.' Which came a few days after the I'm not ready for a relationship. (After sleeping with him for the second time and telling him he was distant). Went on about 6 dates, really liked the guy. No games, no bs. I was doing things differently this time around. I never felt let down by him. He was consistent in asking me out. Then this. Was it because I asked him out the last ime...is it really only about the challenge and chase? I thought there comes a point where we mature past that. We are in our 30's. He said he really did enjoy spending time with me, just needs to sort through things. Asked if can call when he's ready. What does that man- I've never heard something like that. Too nice, felt bad maybe? Thing is- he's still on the site we met. Which makes it clear-- he's just not that into me. I'm bummed but I guess can see it for what it is. At least it didn't get further. I can't get my mind off the disappointment though. How am I ever supposed to get a guy that's 'into me' if I don't see the signs that he's not. Will it always be hard to be 'the girl' since there is so many others out there. Maybe other girls act differently and it reels guys in? I don't know anymore. I'm confused. It's rare I like a guy- how the heck do I keep someone around in the future? I was myself, I'm not a bad catch. Are we supposed to ask up front what type of person they are usually into, what kind of girls they date? Dating feels nearly impossible. Link to comment
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