Aurora11 Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 Hi everyone, I'm a little bit confused as to what happened, so I was wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation? I'm in a long distance relationship with someone who I see once a month. He was the one who kept pushing for a relationship and was extremely serious very early on. He kept telling me that he wanted to be very serious and he thought that we could be together for a long time. I then went on a trip for about a week and during that week, I tried to talk to him, but I didn't have much chances to. When I came home, i sensed things were different and I asked him if everything was okay. He quickly assured me that everything was fine. I asked if he was trying to break things off for some reason, but he said that was a ridiculous idea. However, the next day I barely heard from him and that evening, he suddenly called and said that he couldn't see the long distance working anymore. I calmly listened to him and said that if that was what he wanted, I would respect his wishes, but that I was very confused and I wanted to know why he wanted out. He then told me that he couldn't keep up with my demands on his time and that he didn't know how long he would have to be away for and that he didn't want it to end up in a breakup and break both of our hearts since things were going well. I told him that I had NEVER made demands on his time and it was exhausting for me as well... I also told him that I knew I was heading into a long term long distance relationship and I was okay with that. After I told him these things, he suddenly did another 180 and told me that we were fine and that he wanted to resume the relationship. What in the world happened? Did he just get spooked? Link to comment
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