Tussin Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Hello, In my situation with my breakup I have maintained very LC with my ex because we exchanged personal items and travel costs. It took about a month to complete this transaction, and the last time I contacted her was to let her know that her things would be arriving by mail shortly. During that time, she let it be known that she wanted to talk to me to see "how I was doing" but I told her I was too busy to talk. My friends interpret her behavior as she wants to initiate a possible reconciliation (in her own quirky way), if she feels it is safe emotionally for her to come out of her shell. (She was the dumper) Im a little confused by when I would break LC, if there was a hint that a reconciliation was possible and allow a conversation to develop. Would I ask her to clarify herself? And then at that point, Im not sure exactly where to go.. Anyhow, now that there are no loose ends between us, if she does contact me again, I definitely interpret that as some kind of interest. Am I supposed to just continue LC or go to NC now, or entertain the idea of a talk? thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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