X just showed up at my place today. Motive?

[Makeit]

To make matters worse if youve already read "My Story..." my X just shows up to my place today. With her car running. She says "I just came to get my mail and get some things." I dont even talk to her just walk away into my bedroom and shut the door. She apparently grabs something (dunno what) and leaves. Any ideas?

[camus154]

Sure. Sounds like she was there to check the mail and get some things.

[HeartGoesOn]

Did you let her in, or does she still have a key?

[abitbroken]

She left quickly because she didn't want to get into it. It seems straightforward to me. You are reading into it.

[Makeit]

Youre probably right. But she was literally here 60 seconds she has lots of things here. Couldnt jave taken more then one thing. And yes she has a key and she knows i work in an hour.

[DN]

Yeah, sorry but I think she meant what she said and nothing more.

[abitbroken]

Youre probably right. But she was literally here 60 seconds she has lots of things here. Couldnt jave taken more then one thing. And yes she has a key and she knows i work in an hour.

 

she probably just took what she absolutely had to have or planned to take more but felt it was too awkward and ditched. Don't try to read any more into it. You can ignore this and just move on with your day, or you can talk to her and ask her to plan a day to take the rest of her stuff out with the choice of you being there, or you not being there but a mutual friend being there, etc.