luvsomeone333 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 so ive literally ignored my ex for 6 months and all the sudden out of the blue he sends a text a message saying sorry he stuffed up... argh so i ignonred that and i was like ok so he finally realised what he did was wrong but it doesnt mean im ready to see him just yet or fully forgive him..(he left me to go back to his ex).. then 2 days later he tried to call me but he hangs up cause it was at midnight... then the next day he tried to call me again and by that time i put him on the blacklist cause i thought it was best that i dont pick up the phone and it auto rejects his calls and sms. well now im wondering how far he will go.. cause im definably not picking up the phone and if he wants an apology he better beg for forgiveness and say it to my face.. does that seem like a fair call? im the right thing not to respond right.. Link to comment
1m50L0nl3y Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 What are you expecting from this situation? Link to comment
luvsomeone333 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Share Posted August 26, 2011 i have no idea... Link to comment
1m50L0nl3y Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Well you are ignoring him on purpose, so you must have a motive whether is reconciliation or revenge. Link to comment
wolflovesmoon Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Lets say he will Get some flowers, come to your work or house, admit he was a * * * * and ask you to forgive him.. do you have any idea how you will respond ?,, you should be ready for any scenario. Link to comment
luvsomeone333 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Share Posted August 26, 2011 well i dont want him back thats for sure, like i was hoping to one day be friends with him but it seems to soon.. Link to comment
dabbledave Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 If you're still hurting, then be proactive about processing those negative thoughts and feelings. If you're still angry and resent what happened, then reconciliation probably isn't going to work out. Agree with wolflovesmoon run some scenarios in your mind. Only you can know what's the right thing to do based on how you really feel, and what you really want. Cheers, DD Link to comment
LP90 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Ill tell you from personal experience, stay NC as long as you feel necessary. There will come a point some time in the future where you dont mind seeing a call or text from him, or even consider the idea of meeting up with him to just catch up. Until then, do whatever you need to heal yourself. Dont worry about how much he contacts you or why. If you feel like you arent ready to talk to him, then dont. If for some reason you feel like there is something you want to break NC over, then do it. I saw my ex for the first time in 3 months after strict NC and even though i was a bit sad afterwards, overall i felt relieved and better about everything, so for me it helped me heal more. But its honestly all at your own descretion. Link to comment
luvsomeone333 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Share Posted August 26, 2011 yeah thats true.. i mean i was going to see him eventually just not now. i havent fully forgave him yet, he cheated on me and it breaks my heart. im not angry anymore i just dont want to ever hurt again .. Link to comment
lalalollipops Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 why would you want to be 'friends' with somebody like that? I can never be friends with the ex that cheated on me. Why would I want to attempt friendship with somebody whom I don't even respect at all? Think about it. Have some self respect. Link to comment
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