I have absolutly no idea what is going on

[Sublime]

I can not stress how badly i want to be back with this girl

 

I was with this girl last summer and she broke up with me then i used "no contact" because i had no better options and it worked we went out again starting around spring break. we went out for 3 months. She broke up with me and it broke me down.

 

So about a month later she calls then we play phone tag for about a month. Then when we get a chance to talk to eachother she calls everyday. We go to the movies and she was flirting with me the whole time since i started talking to her again. So i decide to kiss her and i get a bad reaction. The next day she kisses me bit i feel like it was more of a pity kiss.

 

Then we sort of ignore it. Ever since then she has still been flirting and i back but when she starts hugging me for a long time and just sort of rubbing me i dont do it back because when i made my move i got a bad reaction and i really want to stay friends with her. She is in general a big flirt with all of her guy friends but not like she is with.

 

So now she is starting to talk to this guy and still calling me everyday. Sometimes she tells me that her friends ask her if she wants to get back with someone and she says no. Whenever i try to talk to her about stuff like that she end up changing the topic.

 

Maybe i am just stupid to not be able to figure this thing out but I am so confused

[evepm]

Dear Sublime:

 

I think that your ex is playing games and having fun at your expense.

 

She obviously knows that you still have feelings for her and if she were a true friend she would never even think about crossing the line. It's kind of cruel and very thoughtless of her.

 

I believe that you should walk away from this one and go back to no contact. The breaking up and then coming back plus crossing the line in your friendship are only going to bring you heartache.

 

Eve