needmoreinfo Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 In a relationship for 6 weeks and I she doesn't give me much feed back. I love breasts, I love how they look, how they move, how they jiggle, I love playing with them squeezing them etc.. I like spending usually 5-10 minutes doing everything except pinching or biting (don't like causing pain). I like all type of breasts and nipples, small medium and large (as long as they are natural). I really enjoy doing it but, I want to know does this do anything for girls? My current gf says nothing while other girls have said they can orgasm from it? So do women enjoy it? How can I tell if she is NOT enjoying it? thanks Link to comment
elcie Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Well, I know it really rocks my world..but my flatmate from years back hated it because she said that she was so sensitive that any stimulation hurt her. Perhaps the best thing to do is just ask her if she likes what you do..... Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 This is the type of question you should only be asking of your current partner because - simply put - every single woman will have a different answer and no-one is alike. Link to comment
needmoreinfo Posted July 9, 2011 Author Share Posted July 9, 2011 That is the problem, I have asked her and she gives no feedback. Its like that about everything, breasts, oral everything. I am just going by what has worked with previous girls, I have no direction. If I keep pushing for an answer she always says "yes that feels good" but it is very unconvincing. Link to comment
pennyloafer2 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 the bigger the boobs the more you have to work them. small breats can be very sensitive. i really love attention given to my breasts. but everyone is different. its always best to communicate with your partner. instead of asking her "do you like this?" (to which you always have to say YES) ask instead, do you prefer this or this? and do 2 different things. turn it into a game. some people are easier to get feedback from than others. just keep trying. and dont ask in an accusatory way. Link to comment
Robin2904 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Its different for every woman, but I can see how it would be frustrating if she doesn't give you proper feed back. Maybe sit her down and ask her what she likes sexually. Tell her your likes, how you want to please her and make the experience the most enjoyable for her, so if she can be open about what she likes and wants then you can work your best to please her. Some woman are shy with these things....maybe that is the issue. For me personally, breast play is VERY powerful. For some woman maybe not so much. Link to comment
iBroken Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 While I definitely do not climax from breast stimulation, I do enjoy it. My girlfriend on the other hand, she goes crazy when there is breast play involved. Im convinced that if she let me focus on her breast without flipping me over and taking charge, she would climax LOL. So as others have indicated, everyone is different. Link to comment
gingerlemon Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 That is the problem, I have asked her and she gives no feedback. Its like that about everything, breasts, oral everything. I am just going by what has worked with previous girls, I have no direction. If I keep pushing for an answer she always says "yes that feels good" but it is very unconvincing. Well, to put it a bit crudely, then it's not really your problem if she likes it or not. If she doesn't communicate about her likes and dislikes, it's impossible for you to know how to really please her, and that's her responsibility, not yours. Maybe you should try to say that to her, because I sense this becoming a bigger problem in the long term if it isn't addressed. I'm sorry you're in this situation because it's really not fair on you. As for me, I don't go crazy about it but definitely enjoy it. But that's just one data point, as has already been said everyone is different. Boobs. I salute thee This so made me laugh out loud. Link to comment
needmoreinfo Posted July 9, 2011 Author Share Posted July 9, 2011 I think part of the reason why she is poor at communicating is because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings since the relationship is still young. however, just by reading other's responses it makes me more confident that I am not doing it just for my own pleasure and that she actually enjoys it too. thanks everybody. Link to comment
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