Outlaw2747 Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Well I have seen a post that had something to do with stupid excuses to cheat. Well here is one about really dumb reasons to just breaking up, cheating included. Over a year's period I have seen and heard some really ridiculous reasons and behavior regarding breaking up. Well do we have any takers? Because I am sure some reasons that I will bring attention to, one of you guys have already experienced. Link to comment
little242 Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 How about "I'm not good enough for you"? That one throws me even after explaining that I picked that person because I thought they were special, etc,etc. Link to comment
Ated Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 "I need to focus on my studies right now...", even though, a week later, you see him at a club trying hard to pick up. Link to comment
mylifeisasoapoprea Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 "i need to live for myself" WHILE WE WERE APART FOR THE SUMMER!!!!! Link to comment
dontknowwhattodo Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 "I don't have enogh time for you, you will be happy with a guy who has the time you deserve" Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 "It's got nothing to do with you, it's me", this just makes no sense, we are in a relationship, you are getting out of it, it has SOMETHING to do with me, I AM a part of the same relationship am I not???? Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 OMG this thread is a trip, its Deja Vu, lol. "Its not you but me" and "you deserve someone better", those are pretty sad. isn't it great when they rip your heart out but try to convince you they are doing you a favor?. how about this one, "You a wonderful man, any woman would be lucky to have you as their boyfriend, I learned so much from you, etc etc, blah blah. ouch! Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted August 8, 2004 Author Share Posted August 8, 2004 Man I have never seen so many stupid excuses in my life. I feel sorry that you guys had to go through that junk. Here are my opinions on each of these pitiful excuses..... How about "I'm not good enough for you"? That one throws me even after explaining that I picked that person because I thought they were special, etc,etc. Exactly, that doesn't make any sense at all. I sense either a huge insecurity problem or an easy way to worm out of a relationship just to be with someone else. I can be insecure at times but man I would not dump a girl for that reason at all. She picked me for a reason, how could I not be good enough for her unless she is using me? Good pitiful excuse right there. "I need to focus on my studies right now...", even though, a week later, you see him at a club trying hard to pick up. Inexcusable. Not a worthy man. In fact he is a disgrace to men for making that sorry excuse just to be with someone else. And besides, if he really was trying to concentrate and he trusted you, he would have talked to you and told you just to hold on while he set things straight with his studies. Or if he really loved you, he would find a way to make time for you. Either way, you tow would still be together and came to an agreement on something. Unfortunately that is not the case and he so happens to be a scumbag. Pitiful excuse for a human being. "i need to live for myself" WHILE WE WERE APART FOR THE SUMMER!!!!! If this person wants to live for his/herself, why even get into a relationship in the first place? At that, this person said this far away from you? Ridiculous. "I don't have enogh time for you, you will be happy with a guy who has the time you deserve" Once again, this could be a serious insecurity issue or another devious scheme to sneak away with someone else. He could have thought this over before trying to be with you in the first place. "It's got nothing to do with you, it's me", this just makes no sense, we are in a relationship, you are getting out of it, it has SOMETHING to do with me, I AM a part of the same relationship am I not???? ANOTHER insecurity issue or devious scheme. And yes you are correct ComputerGuy, you are a part of it. This person does not appear to be focused straight, once again thinking strictly with feelings and no logic whatsoever..... isn't it great when they rip your heart out but try to convince you they are doing you a favor?. Sarcastically speaking, yes it is. I hate that. I just see it as another way of worming their way out of something for one reason or another. I wish people would think things out before getting intimate with one another. I can't stand it. how about this one, "You a wonderful man, any woman would be lucky to have you as their boyfriend, I learned so much from you, etc etc, blah blah. If I am such a wonderful man and I am so useful to you, why would you throw me away so easily? Whatever.....excuses, excuses. Have fun with whoever you are trying to get with now because you can kiss this so called wonderful guy GOODBYE! I think it is even funnier when this person comes crawling back to you after they get the boot from this new "wonderful" man. Link to comment
Ated Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Wow! Ur sleek I think i'm crushing on you Outlaw! I think your cute! But yes, my ex was such a scumbag. He even told me he can't be with me EVER again because he promised his parents! WHAT THE?! Link to comment
avman Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Well lets be totally honest here. We wouldn't want them to tell us the complete and utter truth either. Lets face it, if your ex broke up with you by saying "You know, you never really were any good in bed. You snore too much. You don't make enough money for me. I think you'd make a lousy husband and I can't see myself staying in the same house with you and not thinking about doing the mail carrier every day." we'd be crushed. Then we'd be on the boards saying "OMG I can't believe how cruel and heartless she is. I HATE HER". There's no good way to break up with someone. The one doing the breaking up is screwed no matter what they say. Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 But at the same time, don't make up a lame excuse, just say "Look, this isn't working, I can't see us a couple and I want o go my separate way" I would much prefer something like that. Link to comment
avman Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Agreed. But realize that the next question you will ask them is BUT WHY? And thats where they face the dilemma of telling you why its really not working (which hurts) or making up some reason on the spur of the moment (which sounds better, but still hurts). Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted August 8, 2004 Author Share Posted August 8, 2004 I say both of you are correct. The truth will hurt like no other but at least we will know what our faults are. Then again, why would you want to hear some lame stupid excuse? That will make anyone skeptical of their ex-partner's motives. Link to comment
avman Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 You'll be skeptical of their motives no matter what they say. After all, you don't want the breakup. If you did, then you'd just shake hands and go "yeah, you're right. it't not working. no big deal" Anytime you have a situation where one wants out and the other doesn't its going to suck. Link to comment
avman Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Of course now I"m going to contradict myself and actually post a stupid reason somebody gave me. How about "My one personality really wants you but my other one doesn't" Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 That's definitely a unique one. Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted August 8, 2004 Author Share Posted August 8, 2004 I get what you say in your last post but as for that excuse, that is a truly sorry excuse. Excuses make me more skeptical than if I found out the real truth. Talk about a split personality.... Link to comment
avman Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Oh yes. So sometimes a breakup is REALLY a good idea. I did the Snoopy dance out of there after she told me that one. Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted August 8, 2004 Author Share Posted August 8, 2004 LOL roger that. I mean you know when it must end but if it ends for some extremely stupid weird reason that has no logic behind it then it is like, "What was the point???" Link to comment
faeriechyld Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 This wasn't what someone said to me, but it's what an ex of the guy I'm dating now said to him. "The tarot cards told me to break up with you." After he told me that, I about died laughing. And since the girl was the same religion I am, I always tease him saying "oh yeah, so I was looking at my tarot cards tonight." He laughs about it now, because...yeah...it was a really stupid reason to give for breaking up with him. Link to comment
CarterJonas Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 mmm. 'It's not you but ME, although I know plenty of girls who want to go out with you, including my best friend' AAAHHHH? Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Yeah, I got that one, but if I wanted the best friend, I think I would have asked your best friend instead Link to comment
Rainswept Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 " I left you , cause I was afraid that I could love someone that much" mmmm...so I guess she just wants the lower grade of love...riiiight btw funny thread Link to comment
Jabe Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 "i dont want a b/f right now" - lol a girl told my friend that, yet hooked up with someone new that night! "you're too nice of a guy for me, I dpn't want to hurt you" - bahahaha Link to comment
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