dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 hmm been txtxing this rather fine girl last 7 days we sent at least 1400 txs to each other but she only feeling out of my depth do i continue or stop ??????????? Link to comment
dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 i mean im feeling out of my depth lol and oringinal post was meant to be 1400 Link to comment
sidehop Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Holy crap that's a lot of text lol. She sounds interested enough at least, ask her out? Link to comment
dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 i have she says soon but im not holding my breath but in the meantime ill get to know her better and her me hopefully we'll both find we like each other more than we realise Link to comment
DrKitten Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Wow. I don't even exchange 500 texts in a month! What do you mean, feeling out of your depth, exactly? Link to comment
sidehop Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 If you already offered then I'd cut back a bit on communication and let her come to you; maybe less texts, keep busy and see if she'll initiate something. Link to comment
dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 i dont kitten lol but last week been very busy. im out of my depth due to her being only 20 and me being 30 lol so 10 year is alot . She's a very nice girl but i dont want t get to far ahead of myself friends is cool for now Link to comment
RedDress Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 1400 texts????? Sorry... the geek in me needs to do the math... 1400 texts over a 7 day period = 200 texts per day. Assuming you sleep 8 hours a day, that's 12.5 texts per hour. That's one text every 5 minutes in ALL your waking hours! Holy text, Batman! I'd seriously cut down on the texts and try to live a normal life. At least until you actually meet. **This post stressed me out. LOL! ** Link to comment
mfan Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 I don't even exchange 500 texts during the lifetime of the known universe. It sounds like you may as well be talking to her on the phone since you are dialoguing so much. Why not? Link to comment
browney2 Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Nothing is wrong with it if you're both enjoying it. I don't think there is a "right" way to connect with someone. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 If you have all that time to text, you must have time to communicate on the phone. I hope you both have an "unlimited texting plan." Link to comment
ut804 Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 boy put down that phone and talk face to face! Link to comment
dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 we just talk about anything and everything but your right ive asked to call her but she say's she is too shy which im ok with because its only been a week we have both seen pics as we are friends on fb Link to comment
dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 btw i get unlimted txts for 5 pound in uk for a month Link to comment
dyna Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 redress txts are ok we both know who we are and talk frankly bear in mind some txt only include lol xx etc so ofc they will mount up Link to comment
browney2 Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Well as long as you are playing it cool. Its only been a week. She may be texting because she is shy or it may be that she is somewhere where she can't talk (e.g. living with her husband). It may also be because she is trying to keep distance between you two for one reason or another Link to comment
Stay_home Posted March 26, 2011 Share Posted March 26, 2011 Still so shy after 1400 texts that she can't talk on the phone??? Hmmm.. don't let husband catch you! Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted March 26, 2011 Share Posted March 26, 2011 Are you sure she's not a 70 year old hairy guy living in his Mom's basement? She's hiding something. Regardless, what are you going to do on a date? Text your way through it? Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted March 26, 2011 Share Posted March 26, 2011 Isn't this a huge waste of your time? Either she wants to meet or she doesn't. I say move on. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted March 26, 2011 Share Posted March 26, 2011 If she's too shy to talk on the phone, how on earth will she be able to meet face-to-face in real life!? Link to comment
dyna Posted March 26, 2011 Author Share Posted March 26, 2011 well like i said its only been a week. thanks for the input all didnt realise some people felt so strongly about this kinda of thing. much respect Link to comment
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