MissingSparkle Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 I have these really bad thoughts about my ex. i know what he wants me to do to get him back,(the only reason i'm not doing it is because i wasn't the cause of our breakup so no i'm not going to grovel) so i imagine myself doing this and then when he's all comfortable breaking his heart. he just gets me so sick he always made a big deal about FB and other social networking sites but he is all over them now. so many things that we had fought over and he complained to me about when we were together he is doing. i just want to make him pay so bad for being such a hypocrite. Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 just forget that douche. seriously, don't spend another moment of your life thinking about a person who hasseled you, then ran to do just what he claimed to hate. Link to comment
hellohello1 Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 That's very immature of him. My suggestions - delete him off of all social networking sites. It will be difficult but then you wont have the desire to look and the anxiety will be gone.. Trust me. It took me 3 months to delete him off facebook and I have been having way less anxiety ever since. Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 Ignorance is bliss...and it speeds up the healing process Link to comment
SWEET_J Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 I wonder how many people actually 'stalk' their ex'es on those sites..and what good really comes of it? I know it's curiosity but for me it would be like standing outside their window and watching their life go on happily without me....while I am out in the cold looking pathetic. Also..if your ex KNEW how much time you spend doing this how they might view you afterward. It's sobering to think about. I personally HATE that gut twisting feeling I would get doing thhose things. My time is better spent bettering MYSELF and keeping my eyes OFF ex'es social sites..and I am MUCH saner and happier.. Easier said than done I know... Link to comment
MissingSparkle Posted October 17, 2010 Author Share Posted October 17, 2010 Thanks guys, i deleted him, i don't really go out of my way to look at his page or anything but when i saw how frequently he was posting and the things he was saying it was so pathetic it just angered me. Link to comment
RecalX Posted October 17, 2010 Share Posted October 17, 2010 he always made a big deal about FB and other social networking sites but he is all over them now. so many things that we had fought over and he complained to me about when we were together he is doing. i just want to make him pay so bad for being such a hypocrite. I'll agree to this, mine, made a big deal about not using these sites while we were together, but as soon as she left her face was plastered all over them Link to comment
MissingSparkle Posted October 21, 2010 Author Share Posted October 21, 2010 he just got me so upset, because i had an issue with him saying contradictory things and he would always justify it Link to comment
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