This is where it gets complicated

[medicine]

Well, out of wanting to keep this thread alive, and lack of knowledge on this subject, what tips can I get to let him know I like him. Something subtle but effective.

 

True, all you have done so far really is a movie "date" which is really a date and some tuba stuff...and this "tuba" and music instruments make me laugh hehehe but that's just me

 

Anyway, before anything, i want to ask you what kind of person do you see yourself as? I mean, what kind of style do you carry?

[doubtfull]

I try not to take one specific form. I try to fit in with all cliches. But for the most part, I am random, smart, and lazy. While he comes off as a jock. And, do know, when I say this, I know that the odds of this actualy happening is slim to none. That whats probably happening is that I am, yet again, seeing this as I want to. Altho, the part of me that can't help but be human and a phony is still saying 'wouldn't it be cool if...'.

[medicine]

I am really not aware of high school cliques that much because it's not really a biggie in Toronto. In my school, it just depends whether if your good-looking or not are the only factors that put you in the "hotlist" (doesn't matter if your an athlete, in band, mean girl, gino/gina, etc.) It may seem impossible to be with someone completely different from you, but remember, you already made a few steps. Right now, school is almost starting again, but my concern is that you mentioned that he is a senior so will you be seeing him this coming school year?

[doubtfull]

Other than band, the occasional hallway run in, maybe tutoring for band, and maybe lunch, no. Which sucks. I want to be around him as much as possible.

[XxPKMNxX]

How about ... pick a movie that you think he will like thats out at the cinema's, then go on about how you want to see it but no-one will go with you to see it, and say you want to see it before it leaves the cinema.

Might offer to go with you then

[doubtfull]

I could try that. I could also schedule it for a weekend my parents will be gone. We can go to as late of a viewing as we want.

[doubtfull]

Well, I run into him in the hallway atleast once everyday. He also has the same lunch as me (thank god) but I will want to become closer to him before I start sitting with him at lunch. Befriend his friends too. Also, we are going to practice a crazy amount. But with him being 15 feet away at all times, I don't mind I still concerned he's over working himself. Idk if he gets ANY rest between school, track, and band. I hope so.

[doubtfull]

would it be weird if I brought an extra water to band to give him to use when he does track? If not, I wouldn't mind doing that

[ceez]

it might be if you to don't hang out too often.

[doubtfull]

Trust me, I want to hang out as much as possible, but I think I have made that obvious, haven't I? Then I will have to find reasons to hang out with him more.

[doubtfull]

Omg, squee^_^ S was beside him all afternoon practice. That makes me so happy. But, on the flip side, I made myself look like a fool infront of him>..

[doubtfull]

Today he started winking at me! At first I thought nothing of it. But he kept winking, so I winked back. Now we wink Thats good, I think.

[ceez]

winks are good, have you tried to set up another movie date?

[doubtfull]

No. Not yet. No movies he wants to see. S could settle for anything. Besides, I would be saying 12 dollars for a founthn drink, overly salted, under buttered popcorn, and the best seat in the house. The one next to his

[doubtfull]

Horrible day He wasn't at school today. But I was still able to turn it around before band. I looked at it like a chance to get better to impress him

[doubtfull]

I... I think I wanna tell him. Probably cause im listening to journey and by the time the weekends over, I really won't want to. Still, if I can't risk throwing caution to the wind, I could never handle a real relationship. Now im seriously contemplating it...

[medicine]

You have great courage there my friend. But as you said, you still need to think about the possibilities like if his reaction is going to be different from what you expect. But yet again, no expectations-no disappointments. Anyways, doing the same thing over and over again and expect the outcome to be different is bogus, so I think you should tell him. Because after all this time, I see you have done some steps but didn't really have anything impacting his and your relationship significantly. There is also a possibility that you might not get to say what you feel to him. Think about it. But as always, it is all up to YOU

 

-medicine

[doubtfull]

grrr, I hate things being my choice. If I mess them up... I can only blame myself...

[doubtfull]

Well, now it can't be stopped. By Wednesday, he will know, or atleast have a clue that I like him.

[medicine]

Good Luck to you and just relax. Set your mind to what you are going to do and don't worry about anything else. Keep us updated

 

-medicine

[doubtfull]

Ok. Will do. And I may just come out to the public, depending on how it all plays out.

[doubtfull]

Ok. So, the friend that was going to tell him for me decided not to, and I found I wasn't flirting at all, just hardcore sucking up. So, now ill try flirting. Lol. GHM

[ceez]

Ok. So, the friend that was going to tell him for me decided not to, and I found I wasn't flirting at all, just hardcore sucking up. So, now ill try flirting. Lol. GHM

 

haha wow, I hope the flirting works out.

[doubtfull]

that makes 2 of us. He's returning from a trip to Jersey tomorrow. Atleast, I think so. Hope so, too

[doubtfull]

He's back from his trip to Jersey. Thank god, too. I haven't seen him since Thursday. I was missing him really really bad. This is where the flirting starts.