so lonely

[loulou37]

does anyone know of any good chat sites? i feel so lonely since i split with my ex..

[Dixi]

I used ukchatterbox.co.uk when my ex and I split four years ago, it was good then but I'm not sure if it's still good now

[FootofGod]

there's always omegle. Find some meaningless strangers and talk about stupid stuff to get your mind off it! Or, if they're willing to listen, talk about it with a total stranger.

[Radeon]

Haha, I like where this thread is going!

[loulou37]

Haha, I like where this thread is going!

have i missed something!! where is this thread going?

[Dixi]

have i missed something!! where is this thread going?

 

You and me both, I have no idea

[Adge]

Cheer up Lou! You'll find someone else Try and get out and about, that's what I'm doing!

[loulou37]

puff i cant even get off the sofa, let alone go out.

[Adge]

I remember the first time this happened with an ex about 4/5 years ago I was in an absolute state. Couldn't function at all. Complete mess!

 

Think because it's happened a couple of times, my mind tells me that it gets better so no need to get too het up about it. Almost like some sort of defence mechanism!

 

Go ring a bloke up and ask him to give you a foot massage or summat!

[loulou37]

eww no way, i just couldnt be with any1 else, even tho weve split up, i still love him....if it was that easy i wouldnt be sitting round here, id be off with sum guy

[indy123]

I personally think you need to take time in your life with no men around to find yourself.

 

Try to fill your time by being surrounded by friends and family.

 

I cant say a lot more other than time is a real healer and you will get over this.

 

When i went through a breakup a few years ago i thought i would never ever find love again and i considered ending my life.

 

3 years later i find myself going through the same again but this time i know i will get through this.

 

You will move on. Be strong. I wish you the best of luck.

[loulou37]

thanx for that indy, im not looking to chat to guys at the mo, im just looking for general chat, for when im alone in the evening, i think my family and friends have just about had enough of me.

[Hermes]

i think my family and friends have just about had enough of me.

 

I hope they are supportive, and I am sure they do listen. Don't they? Meantime, it is vital that you get out and about a bit. Just so the evenings are not so lonely for you why not take advantage of this time to take up an activity, go to a gym, evening class, book club, whatever. You may yoursel enjoying yourself.

Don't martyr yourself about the individual It isn't worth it.

 

H

[loulou37]

i live with my 2 children and my mother, my eldestchild has started to be affected by all this, hes seen me in hell of a state, poor thing. i do feel awful but i cant do anything to stop myself... my mother and i always clash on everything, over the years she has become very cold, also she hates men, so shes had enough of me really.

[Hermes]

Oh dear, Loulou.

 

This is decidedly not healthy.

 

my mother and i always clash on everything, over the years she has become very cold,

 

Right now you need support, time to yourself and some let-up in teh stress.

 

You are correct. It is not good for your children to see you in this state.

 

Is there any possibility you can make other living arrangements?

 

H

[loulou37]

not at the moment no, also without my mother here the kids would not get to school etc...she is fantastic...we just dont agree on anything

[Hermes]

my mother and i always clash on everything, over the years she has become very cold,

 

she is fantastic

 

I am glad to hear your mother is looking after the children.

 

H