Jlz Posted May 17, 2010 Share Posted May 17, 2010 Recently, my bf of one year and I broke up. It's been a few days since and I've been really really miserable and lonely and doubtful I'll ever be in a relationship again. I was introduced to him by a mutual friend. Ever since graduating from college 2 years ago, I can't seem to meet guys. It took a year before I met my ex and that was through a friend. I didn't meet him on my own. In college, I had no problems getting dates simply because everyone was single and looking to date. Even though I am shy and quiet, it wasn't a problem cause guys did the approaching. But in the "real world", it's so different. At work, I'm the youngest person in my department (23). Most everyone else is in their upper 20's to early 30's and already in a relationship or married. I tried the community, I do volunteer work, I joined clubs and gym. But again, not a great way to meet single guys. I'm just at a complete loss. I know you'd probably suggest friends again, but tbh, I don't have that many friends here. Most friends from college and hs are scattered accross the world. I have more long distance friendships than local friends, which is also a problem. Making friends and finding a guy. What I am missing? Where did you meet your bf/gf? Link to comment
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