simplenation Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 So we have been dating for close to 6 months now. I've been in a stable job for the last 3 years. It's more than a job its a career. She has been working a temp job out near where she lives. My employer toyed with the idea of relocating me to her home town for the last three months or so. Well last week it became clear that that wasn't going to happen. At the same time my girl friend got laid off from her temp job. She always said she would move in a heart beat if I asked.. but i've been scared to have to make her quit her job and move here..but since she was unemployed i'd figure id step up and invite her out here. I found an apartment for us, found her possible work and then asked her if she was interested in moving here. After three days of her acting odd she tells me that she is gonna move in with her girl friend to save money and we will revisit the move in the future. I feel like she is me. We've gone this long because she thought i was gonna move there for work.. i feel as tho that was the only reason she once was willing to move here. What do i do. I think she is a really special person and i'd love to be with her but just feel rejected. Is it fair for me to leave my stable job to move to her... where she was working a random temp job and is now unemployed ? Link to comment
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