Scattered Posted April 27, 2010 Share Posted April 27, 2010 I have been doing NC for a few days, maybe 8-9 now, and I've begun to realize after reading many posts that it's always the dumper who needs to come back to the dumpee, which is exactly what I haven't been doing. I actually took on the mindset that I was the dumpee for awhile for the simple fact that she lost interest two months prior to the end. which I've come to realize was childish. I broke up with her and now I need to make amends. If you read my story then you know that she is starting a relationship with another man but they're not official, yet. I think school plays a huge role in her decision to stay single but do you think there's some chance that she's just waiting for me to show her I've changed? We had a fantastic relationship for almost a year and even talked about a future together and then it all just ended after a lot of dumb * * * * . It's really mind boggling! I don't know what to do and would really like some input. Thank you! Link to comment
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